please don't be homophobic and smash the post. I'm just curious how Chennai is for bi people. I almost have zero bi friends. Please lemme know how the scene is for y'all! ✨
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25M from Chennai. Looking to meet new people and make friends. Happy to grab coffee, explore the city, or just chat. Feel free to DM.
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Hiiiii. M24. Ever since school, I’ve known that I’m attracted to both girls and guys. But because I was still very much into girls, I kept convincing myself that maybe my attraction towards guys was “just a phase.”
Now I’m older and I know it probably isn’t 😭
The confusing part is that while I am attracted to girls, I’m not even sure if I could ever actually see myself being in a relationship with a guy. And that thought has been messing with my head a lot lately.
I think the hardest part is that the people around me haven’t exactly made it easy to accept myself fully. Sometimes I get scared of the idea of actually dating a guy, so I just end up suppressing that side of me and pretending it’ll go away.
But at the same time, I do imagine a future where I can openly love whoever I want without feeling scared or guilty about it. And honestly, that sounds really nice.
I see people being so confident and open about their sexuality and I genuinely admire them for it. I wish I had that kind of courage too.
Idk, I guess I’m still figuring myself out.