r/TamilQueers

Mine was Aishwarya Rajesh 🤚😇

Hello, my sister came out to me like a year ago, I'm treating her normally and protecting her from parents regarding marriage topics deflecting stuffs, but she thinks that I'm thinking her as weird person and judging her. I'm not sure how to help her as she's afraid of everything and everyone. I'm 26m bisexual, i dont want to come out to her as I'm not ready kinda confused. Is there any other way I could help her other than outing myself to make her feel safe and reassured.

Hey everyone,
I’m 23 and recently moved to Chennai. Still figuring myself out slowly, and honestly sometimes I feel the same way many people here describe — a little lost, wanting people who actually understand without judging.

I’d really like to meet good friends or people to talk to, hang out with, and just feel comfortable around. Even simple conversations help.

Into chill talks, memes, cafés, random walks, late-night chats, and supportive vibes.

If anyone’s open to connecting or being friends, feel free to DM. ✨

30 yo bi mainly having feminine traits, took nearly 6 months to see what will people do and think but no is ready to even listen or support. I am still a closet one so anyone knows how to come out or even get a good supportive partner to be in same page. Chennaite working in IT as N/W engineer!

Same as the title...

Well, I'm a 21 year old guy. I'm that guy who doesn't appear to be gay, but into men, romantically physical and sensually lol (I'm not inviting creepy dms though).

Well, I do have queer friends, whom I know from reddit... But why not look for new friends! That's why I'm writing this post.

About me: 21yo, working in a firm, loves writing poems, listening to music, and cooking foods.

What else do you wanna know about me? Slide into my dm!

Even if you wanna connect on insta, let me know your id, else you will be on my request list😅.

With love, Nish♥️💅🏻

Hi everyone! I’m a 31-year-old Tamil woman and I think I’ve finally had my "aha" moment. For years, I just felt kind of indifferent or neutral about things, but recently it’s like a switch flipped.

Everything feels so much more vivid and "electric" now that I'm admitting the truth to myself about being into women. It’s honestly like a second puberty—exciting but also really overwhelming to process, especially since I'm married.

I’m really looking to connect with others in the Tamil community who might have realized this later in life. It would be so nice to have some online friends to chat with about this journey and just share our experiences. Keeping things anonymous for safety, but would love to hear from anyone who "gets it"!

Hey everyone. I’m a 20-year-old guy from Theni district, Tamil Nadu, and I’ve been struggling with my identity for a long time. I’m closeted and identify as pansexual, and honestly, living a double life every day is exhausting.

I’ve had relationships and experiences before, and they helped me understand myself better. But even then, I still feel isolated sometimes — especially living in a smaller town where it’s hard to openly talk about these things.

I guess I’m posting here because I want to know:

Are there others around me who feel the same way?

A little about me:

• 20M
• Closeted
• Pansexual
• Looking for genuine connection
• Open to friendship, texting, or meeting people safely
• Hoping for a long-term relationship someday
• Emotionally tired of dating apps and hiding who I am
• Looking for affection, understanding, and people I can relate to

I’m still figuring myself out, and maybe that’s okay. I just don’t want to feel alone in it anymore.

Would really appreciate hearing from people with similar experiences, especially from Tamil Nadu or nearby areas.

Hiiiii I’m 21F. Since school, I’ve known that I’m attracted to both girls and boys. For a long time, I kept confusing myself because I was still very much attracted to boys, so I tried convincing myself that my attraction was just a phase.

I’ve been trying to accept myself but it’s honestly been difficult. There was a period where I tried to convince myself it was a phase since I was still very much attracted to boys(I was still very young). The people around me have also not made it easy for me to accept myself. I am very afraid of dating a girl and have kinda tried to repress that part of me but sometimes I become selfish and dream of a future where I can love whoever I want. I see few people being very confident and open abt their sexuality. I want that for myself, but I feel like I lack the courage to actually take the first step.

Idk what to do honestly 🚶‍♀️

Looking for a Tamil friend/bestie for daily chats, meaningful conversations, late-night/day-end talks, and genuine friendship. Introvert-friendly 😄

If you enjoy wholesome conversations and long-term friendship, DM me!

Telegram id : Ajaj1212