Welcome to our weekly sharing/vent space where you can talk about anything that's been on your mind. Had a good day? Had a bad day? Looking for a shoulder to cry on or a void to scream into?
Fall on your community and your community will be there to catch you!
தமிழ் பேச தெரிந்தவர்கள் எவரும் உண்டோ.?
Hey, hope everyone’s having a great day!! 🫶 Was hoping the amazing people here could recommend me with some gay romance movies. Thanks in advance, you’re the best!
Hi folks! I’m u/genderlesscoconut, a founding moderator of r/QueerSouthAsian. Welcome to our new community for queer South Asians to connect, ask for advice, share resources, find events, and talk openly about our experiences.
Whether you’re looking for community, navigating family or culture, searching for queer-friendly resources, trying to meet other queer South Asians, or just want somewhere to celebrate a win, we hope you can find a place here.
What to Post
Anything related to queer South Asian life! This can include:
- Asking for advice or support
- Sharing LGBTQ+ and South Asian community resources
- Posting queer events, meetups, groups, and organizations
- Discussing family, culture, gender, sexuality, relationships, religion, diaspora, or identity
- Looking for community in your city or region
- Sharing news, media, art, books, or other things you think the community would enjoy
- Celebrating queer South Asian joy, milestones, and wins
- Starting a conversation or simply asking a question you’ve wanted to ask other queer South Asians
Community Vibe
We want r/QueerSouthAsian to be friendly, constructive, intersectional, and inclusive. There is no single way to be queer or South Asian, and our community includes people across different countries, cultures, languages, religions, castes, genders, sexualities, and diasporas.
Come here to ask questions, exchange advice, find resources, make connections, and learn from one another. Disagreement is okay; bigotry and personal attacks are not.
How to Get Started
Introduce yourself below! Share as much or as little as you’re comfortable with, and feel free to include your pronouns.
Make a post! Even a simple question can start a great conversation.
Know about a queer South Asian event, organization, resource, or community group? Share it!
If you know someone who would appreciate this space, invite them to join.
Interested in helping build the community? We’re looking for moderators, so feel free to reach out to me about applying.
Thanks for being part of the very first wave of r/QueerSouthAsian. Let’s build the kind of queer South Asian community we wish we had when we were looking for one. ❤️
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29M here, just wrapped up a PhD and about to disappear into the mountains for a month. Not looking for an itinerary — more like walking without a fixed destination, letting each day decide the next, staying wherever feels right, moving on when it doesn’t.
Thinking Leh, Spiti, Dharamshala/McLeodGanj, Bir, Manali — but honestly open to wherever the road takes us. Budget travel, shared stays, slow mornings, no rush.
Looking for someone with the same headspace — up for genuine wandering, comfortable with silence as much as conversation, not chasing a checklist of “sights.” I’m bi, and happy to connect with anyone who vibes with this kind of open, no-mind travel, regardless of gender.
If this sounds like your kind of trip too, drop a comment or DM. Let’s figure out the details from there.
He made a post like this and I commented there, then he came to my DMs and asked about my gender and sexuality , then this convo happened. Wtf he means by don't want gay?? And he also makes a statement that he doesn't wanna sound creepy, so that he can probably do it in the DMs!! What a disgusting creature😬😬
Unable to add pics here so putting it in comments
Edit : unable to add screenshots anywhere so here is the summary.
He made a post looking for friends to chat, I commented ,and he came to DMs. Then i came to know he was looking for girls, asked why he didn't mention it in post, he said he didn't wanna sound creepy, and then next he says he doesn't want gays...to which i got agitated and said go to hell and blocked him
Here’s a clean version for a Reddit travel companion post:
Looking for a travel buddy (29, Chennai) — open to scenic/offbeat trips
Hey everyone! I’m 29 (bi), based in Chennai, and looking for someone to travel with, ideally also from Chennai or nearby, though I’m open either way.
I’m drawn to naturally scenic and offbeat places over touristy hotspots. Hills, mountains, quiet coastlines, forests basically anywhere with good nature and a slower pace works for me. Open to short weekend trips as well as longer travel if things click.
If you’re into exploring, easygoing, and up for good conversation and spontaneous plans, drop a comment or DM me. Would love to hear where you’ve traveled or want to go!
Landing in Ujjain on the evening of September 2nd & 3rd for Mahakal Darshan, then heading to Omkareshwar next day . Traveling solo and it’s my first time in that area, so if anyone else is going solo around the same dates, would love to team up — especially if you’ve been there before and know the ropes (darshan timings, best route to Omkareshwar, etc.). Happy to split a room/cab too. Let me know!
enakku transgender, FTM, gay, yaara irunthalum enakku chat pannumga
en veetla strinct - naan closet la irunthu varanum
please yaarathu en kooda relationship la iruntha nalla irullum - interested persons can DM me