Someone please explain

Someone please explain

I feel too dumb to understand this, could someone please explain in simple words what is he trying to tell?

u/exploreralways3121 — 9 days ago

Ennala digest pannave mudila

He made a post like this and I commented there, then he came to my DMs and asked about my gender and sexuality , then this convo happened. Wtf he means by don't want gay?? And he also makes a statement that he doesn't wanna sound creepy, so that he can probably do it in the DMs!! What a disgusting creature😬😬

Unable to add pics here so putting it in comments

Edit : unable to add screenshots anywhere so here is the summary.

He made a post looking for friends to chat, I commented ,and he came to DMs. Then i came to know he was looking for girls, asked why he didn't mention it in post, he said he didn't wanna sound creepy, and then next he says he doesn't want gays...to which i got agitated and said go to hell and blocked him

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u/exploreralways3121 — 12 days ago

Got approached by a guy (gender dysphoric 24M here)

I was using a dating app called glee, with 2 profiles, one as a catfishing female one and another with real information about my gender orientation. The 2nd one usually remains dead but yesterday this particular guy connected to me, we texted and vibes matched, and now he says he wants to spend his life with me. I told him I'm still a male outside and never planned of changing my gender too, but he says it's not a problem and he only cares about my nature and character. He says he doesn't just want to be my lover, but more than that (like a husband) and even said he wants to tie the sacred thread around my neck. I'm extremely overwhelmed rn... I feel I want him but I'm afraid if it is even possible . I don't want to get into danger or not give any false hopes to anyone. I'm confused what to do.

P.S. He's 31, married and has a kid. And never has the intention to break his family (and I'm okay with it)

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u/exploreralways3121 — 28 days ago

Review about a hotel

Guys I've booked a capsule hotel-KB marina park pods - near chepauk. Anyone could please share about its features and quality experience!!

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u/exploreralways3121 — 1 month ago

Need an acting driver in coimbatore

Needed an acting driver from near coimbatore (preferably along coimbatore to mettupalayam stretch) on coming Saturday for a 1 day travel from early morning to reaching back at night. Any idea if anyone is available , or how to look for them?

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u/exploreralways3121 — 1 month ago

Adaptation tip please

Guys I booked an overnight journey for tomorrow night in 3AC and got seat number 8, which when I saw from seat layout of the coach, shows side upper near the door😐. Any suggestions how do I sleep properly and keep my backpack safe too?

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u/exploreralways3121 — 2 months ago

Urgent Help for a friend in health crisis and loss of employment. Further details are described below

Hi

My name is Sreeram, native of coimbatore. For 19 years, my partner was my chosen family and the love of my life. Last year, I lost him in a sudden accident in Dubai. In that moment, I chose to donate my own organs — three lives were saved. But after his passing, I had no family support. I had to return to India alone, carrying heavy grief and pain, while holding onto hope of starting again. I’ve now been in Bangalore for the last six months, working on healing.

A few months ago, my story was shared on Humans of Queer:

https://www.instagram.com/p/DKe-VAiS16P/?igsh=MWs5b3ZvbHV4MHoxNA==

I’m currently fundraising for medical treatment, therapy, and rehabilitation so I can continue my healing journey with dignity.

You can support here: https://m-lp.co/sreeramr

For international donors, you can also use \\\\\\\*\\\\\\\*PayPal\\\\\\\*\\\\\\\* (sreeramradhika) or direct bank transfer. All details are on the page.

I’d be grateful if you could share my story or offer any support. Thank you for creating this space.

THIS IS FOR A FRIEND OF MINE

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u/exploreralways3121 — 2 months ago
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Help ! For a friend

THIS IS FOR A PERSON WHO I'M ACQUAINTANCES WITH

Hi

My name is Sreeram. For 19 years, my partner was my chosen family and the love of my life. Last year, I lost him in a sudden accident in Dubai. In that moment, I chose to donate my own organs — three lives were saved. But after his passing, I had no family support. I had to return to India alone, carrying heavy grief and pain, while holding onto hope of starting again. I’ve now been in Bangalore for the last six months, working on healing.

A few months ago, my story was shared on Humans of Queer:

https://www.instagram.com/p/DKe-VAiS16P/?igsh=MWs5b3ZvbHV4MHoxNA==

I’m currently fundraising for medical treatment, therapy, and rehabilitation so I can continue my healing journey with dignity.

You can support here: https://m-lp.co/sreeramr

For international donors, you can also use **PayPal** (sreeramradhika) or direct bank transfer. All details are on the page.

I’d be grateful if you could share my story or offer any support. Thank you for creating this space.

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u/exploreralways3121 — 2 months ago

Serious doubt here

Some guys in this post are saying that if a male gets attracted to a MTF person, he is gay. I personally feel he is still straight because he will be attracted to her femininity. But I find people arguing to me against my opinion. What do you guys think? Who is right here? I'm genuinely confused now

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u/exploreralways3121 — 2 months ago

24M, seeking clarity about my future professional and personal life

A quick briefing of what I'm exactly concerned about.

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Professionally- I'm a medical graduate and am confused whether to pursue administrative jobs or continue with medical profession, as my primary goal is public service. I wanted to know a clear idea of which path will be suitable for me.

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Personally- this is regarding my gender identity and orientation. My inner mind doesn't identify myself as my birth gender and I find myself often associating myself as the opposite gender. This makes me worried about how my future on love, relationship and marriage life would be impacted. Do I get to live according to my wish or do I get to live according to what the society expects me to?

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Any of the experts kindly look into my chart and please provide me a clarity regarding the above mentioned things. Thanks in advance!

u/exploreralways3121 — 2 months ago

24M , Right dominant

I'm looking for an outlook of how my professional and personal life would be! Any experts of palmistry Kindly enlighten me about it .

u/exploreralways3121 — 2 months ago
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Rainbow on pride month

Pride month adhuvuma seeing such a prominent and beautiful rainbow 💖 idhey madhri makkal mindset um beautiful ah epo marumo🙃

u/exploreralways3121 — 3 months ago

Weather showing itself on pride month

Never seen this prominent rainbow in my life, and that too on pride month😍 feels so excited

(Sorry for the poor quality though , my camera isnt that good)

u/exploreralways3121 — 3 months ago

Looking for a job as duty doctor in or near coimbatore

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Hello everyone I'm an Mbbs graduate from a central govt institute, currently waiting for appointment as govt MO (getting delayed for unknown reasons) until then I'm looking for working in any clinic as a temporary duty physician. If anyone knows any clinic who is willing to hire someone temporarily, kindly let me know. Preferably within coimbatore city or northern coimbatore ( between cbe - mettupalayam)

Thank you

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u/exploreralways3121 — 3 months ago

Looking for a job as duty doctor in or near coimbatore

Hello everyone I'm an Mbbs graduate from a central govt institute, currently waiting for appointment as govt MO (getting delayed for unknown reasons) until then I'm looking for working in any clinic as a temporary duty physician. If anyone knows any clinic who is willing to hire someone temporarily, kindly let me know. Preferably within coimbatore city or northern coimbatore ( between cbe - mettupalayam)

Thank you

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u/exploreralways3121 — 3 months ago

Looking for a job as duty doctor in or near coimbatore

Hello everyone I'm an Mbbs graduate from a central govt institute, currently waiting for appointment as govt MO (getting delayed for unknown reasons) until then I'm looking for working in any clinic as a temporary duty physician. If anyone knows any clinic who is willing to hire someone temporarily, kindly let me know. Preferably within coimbatore city or northern coimbatore ( between cbe - mettupalayam)

Thank you

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u/exploreralways3121 — 3 months ago