r/TamilTwenties

Inviting you to my new community
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Inviting you to my new community

Guys I created a new educational community for ppl who are preparing for govt exams..if you are preparing, follow r/GovtExamTamil

u/vanilla_essencee — 21 hours ago

Username Paavangal

Reddit use panni 3 naal aagudhu and I have noticed that neraya peroda username laam bayangarama Iruku

Oru Vela naandha tharkuri thanama yen pera vechitenooo

Paravala nalla pesuradhuku oru 4 friends kedachirukantaa adhuvae podhum

Plus podraa post-ku laam nallavae response varudhu

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u/Harish_1705 — 1 day ago

MBA panalam nu iruka !?

Recent ah M.E panalam ah nu oru doubt la keta ellarum venam nu dhaa suggest paninga after that neraya per enaku mba suggest panaanga, if I do mba enaku job surity irukum ah ?

MBA pandradhu better ah !?

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u/KnightScorp — 1 day ago
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Toxic friends gang vs genuine friend gang

Okay I want this to get it of my chest
I have 2 friends gang okay one is from my area where I live and we’re just 3 of them including me but they treat me like shit…total shit like they don’t give a shit about what I talk or what i say or anything….i feel insecure, low and depressed around them but ik them for 15 years.
And next comes the genuine friends gang
*turns the imagination camera towards them

They are from my college days and they are total lovely assholes who love me like I’m their family
They trust me, they treat me like a king and they treat me as if I’m the leader of the gang and they even cancel plans totally if I’m not showing up because they say if I’m not going then nobody’s going 🤣🤭 I feel so loved and cared and happy around them but the thing is I couldn’t choose either one of them cuz the toxic gang just shouts at me for hanging out with my other gang and other gang I’ll be honest with them about whatever I want and they don’t judge me especially 🫶 even I can tell them about any stuff that’s going through my mind and they’ll match the vibe
Now I hate my toxic gang which they made me feel low, depressed and feel like I’m not worth it
But I do have my chella kutty gang where they love me as who I am and I don’t need to act like not by myself which the other gang totally hates

Any tips on what to do with this situation 😭🌝

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Anyone looking for a any community..!?

Hey guyz... New community start panalam nu irukom,.here specific ah edhaachum community create panalam naa edhukaga irundha better ah irukum and neenga idhu varaikum search pani kedaikadha communities edhaachum Iruka !?

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u/KnightScorp — 1 day ago

Thayir la pota thayir vada, podalana medhuvada, Otta irundhaa adhu otta vada...

Which ideology does this line say about?

I know this is a silly question, just asking because, why not?

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u/chadchampion420 — 1 day ago
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Marbels Stickers 😍

Ipolaam indha maari stickers or collectibles thara maatranunga 😢

Marbels innum iruka?

Any memories around collectibles u've got?

u/Preethaustew — 2 days ago

Is joing TCS as a fresher good?

I’m a 21M about to complete my graduation this year, and companies have started visiting my college for campus placements.

I recently heard that the TCS NQT exam is coming up, and the assessment is scheduled for July. I’ve been preparing for it for the past two weeks, and I’m pretty confident that I’ll get the job, most likely Digital or Prime considering my aptitude and coding skills.

Do you think TCS is a good choice for a fresher? Most of my relatives have advised me not to join TCS. What’s your opinion?

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An unemployed B.E engineering student

Hey guys, Actually I'm 22 B.E complete pani around 15 days aachu still work edhum pogala, now I have a chance to be a teacher in diploma college, salary 15K with accommodation and food, but teaching and warden work rendumey paakanum.... Enoda veetla salary kami ah Iruku, idhuku edhuku 4yrs CSE paducha nu kekranga, naan ah velaiku pola nu solra !? Evanum vela thara maatra....

Ipo indha teaching work poitu, 1yr la M.E apply panitu andhaa course complete panalam nu yosikra, actually idhaa na plan pana but ipo seats edhum ila, so next yr M.E panalam nu iruka

Idha pathi unga thoughts !? Or better options !? Or something else!?

Opinion: ok or not suggestable

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u/KnightScorp — 1 day ago
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hate admitting this, but do looks really decide your value?

I’m 26, from Chennai, India.

And somewhere along the way, I started noticing how differently people treat me compared to others who “look better.”

Not directly. Not openly.

But in small painful ways that slowly break you.

People interrupt you more.

Ignore your opinions more.

Choose others over you more easily.

Even the jokes hit differently when you’re not attractive enough.

What hurts the most is… it’s not just strangers.

Sometimes it’s your own friends.

Sometimes your own home.

Sometimes even the person you love.

And the worst part?

You slowly start believing maybe you really are less valuable.

I laugh normally outside, but deep inside I’ve honestly spent years feeling unattractive, unwanted and not enough.

There are days I avoid mirrors. Days I avoid photos. Days I wonder how different my life would’ve been if I just looked better.

I’m tired of pretending confidence alone fixes everything.

Because the world really does treat you softer when you look good.

I genuinely want to become lean now.

Not just for aesthetics.

I just want to walk into a room without feeling inferior for once.

I want to feel desired. Respected. Seen.

I want to look at myself and not feel disappointment anymore 🥹

u/Icy-Release7064 — 3 days ago

Must date the Playboy Suggestion

Guys, is this series really worth watching? I’ve just started watching the uncut episodes on YouTube. I genuinely believe in Suriya Velan’s works — especially Joe and Naam 1 & 2 — because they felt so poetic and emotionally well-made. That’s why I started this series with good expectations too. Tell me your honest opinions about it.

#Mustdatetheplayboy #MDTP

u/Harish_1705 — 2 days ago

Keep Manifesting

I have met suriya sir in my dream.

How that happened

I went to some place in the night alone and he came very simple and I saw him and this is how the conversation happened

Me: Hi sir yeppadi irukuringaa

Suriya Sir: I'm fine paa neenga yeppadi irukuringa

Me: Nalla irukuren sir Karuppu padam superaa irundhuchii sir

Suriya sir : Thank you paa

After that he came alone for dinner, he was sitting alone very casually and none of the public has been identified it was him

And then with the hesitation I asked him

Me: Sir if you don't mind unga kooda okandhukalamaa

Suriya sir :Kandipaa please join

Once I joined him for the first 3 minutes kita pesavae illa and I was nervous and I can't believe that I was talking with him

And suddenly he asked

Suriya sir : Yenna pandringaa ?

Me : BPO la work pandren sir and I was passionate in cinema

Suriya sir : Yennava aaga try pandringa

Me : Direction dha sir

Suriya sir: Ohh nice best wishes director sir

Apdinu yenaku sonna odaney rekka katti parakkura

maariye irundhuchiii

Me :Sir naa unga kita onnu kekalama

Suriya sir : mm kelungaa

Me : Yeppadi sir ivalo years aa ungaluku irukura downfall-eh manage panni innum cinemava love pandringa ?

Suriya sir : Just god things and yennoda anbana fans kaaga appdinu sonnen

Then I started polambifying to tell him about my life he silently listens to that and finally our dinner gets over and then

Me : Sir unga kooda oru photo eduthukalama ?

Suriya sir : Yes kandipaa

Appdinu solli both of his hands is on my shoulders

literally goosebumps

Me : Thank you so much sir for the pleasure of meeting you I'll never forget this day in my life

Correct aa kelambumbodhu

Suriya sir : Thambi unga Peru Yenna ?

Me : Harish

Suriya sir : Kavalapadadhingaa idhukaparam unga life nalla irukum naa kadavula vendikuren and Idhu yennoda card yedhachii script irundha vandhu yenna meet pannunga.

Crt aa andha card receive pannumbodhu I woke up and oru aanadhamaana sandhosam.

Today may be this is a dream

But definitely tomorrow it's a destiny that I'll meet suriya sir and I'll work with him

Keep manifesting and definitely the universe will make you surprises ❤️🤞🏽

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u/Harish_1705 — 2 days ago
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Arranged marriage-a ban panita enga nilamai ellam ena aagurathu....

Enga paathalum ore relationships post-a iruku, athan oru doubt ketkanum nu thonuchu.....

So Oru kutty story.....about me and my friend...we both are male and in our late 20s.

So naanga meet paninathu college la than and enga rendu per kulla nalla oru vibe irunthuchu, ipo varaikum close frnds-a irukom , more than a decade...

When I was 16, my family lost everything because of my father's financial mistakes, kadaisila na engineering padikurathe periya vishayama irunthuchu.. epdiyo kadan vaangi college la sernthaachu, college life fulla financial-a neraya struggles ,so kidacha opportunities-a engalala full-a utilise panika mudiala...en friend oda family background poor than, even oru semester apo kooda crowd funding maathiri amount collect Pani than avanuku fees pay paninom.Intha financial problems naala relationship kulla pogura mindset varala apo, it doesn't mean that we don't know how to talk to girls, ponunga frnds irunthanga, ipovum irukaanga(college/office) athula oru silar ku interest irukunu therinjum, na avungala avoid Paninen.

Na degree mudichapo,my salary was around 24000,but family had a debt of 30 lakhs and we don't have any properties as well, verum 24000 salary-a vechu, 30 lakhs kadan-a epdi adaikurathu....na atha pathi than yosichene thavira, relationships kulla pora mindset suthama ila...

And that frnd ,he lost his father (cardiac arrest), we both were 21 at that time....after that avan family situation-a avanaala manage pana mudiala, Athuku apuram he moved to dubai and now he is making around 1.5 lakhs a month and also he is the sole bread winner of his family...yen yarayum approach panna thonalaina, date pananum apdingara mindset suthama ila coz mentally and financially we were not ready for another commitment,apuram paathukalaam nu vitaachu...so single-a ve irunthutom, but marriage panikanum apdingara oru aasai irukum la....

And neraya per arranged marriage is transactional, 2026 la kooda arranged marriages-a ? nu neraya per intha sub la ketrukaanga....apuram social medias la kooda(insta,youtube), Love marriage/dating vs arranged marriage nu varum bothu neraya ponunga love marriage/dating than choose paninanga, avunga point of view la athu correct than, because they can able to know a person..

So neenga soldra maathiriye arranged marriage-a ban panitanganu vechukalaam, apdi oru system-e ila...

Apo engala maathiri pasangaluku ena solution? Kadaisi varaikum thaniyaave irukanuma? And also recent-a oru ponnu 25(F), past relationships pathi oru post potrunthanga,...ena maathiri ,yen frnd maathiri irukura Pasanga past relationships ilama irukura oru ponna ethir paakurathu thappu ilaye?

u/Ok-Performance2317 — 3 days ago
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project idea

so i try to do a project and i need some help in ideas if you have some just tell me , based on complexity i will choose one ( im just a 2nd year student)

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u/Kakarot_7037 — 3 days ago

Movie Paavangal

Vaazhkaiyilae first time 4 mani neram padatha 6 mani nerama paakuren ❤️‍🔥

Paduthuthu paakuren mudiyala

Okandhitu pakuren mudiyala 🤣

u/Harish_1705 — 2 days ago

Sitting here at 5o clock with no sleep.

As the title said yes I haven't slept yet and recollecting the memories I had.

I do feel like stuck on that one person, i loved her with all my heart and she did too ig. But the moment she blocked me without giving me any prior reasons still haunts me like hell.!!

She was a mallu muslim and I'm just a tamil hindu guy, I thought we are good and we met through socials and she wass elder than me..!!

We were in ldr but somehow made everything work with daily calls and constant checking up on each other.!! She had a brain tumor so i used to take extra care for her..!!

Now what I'm wondering at the middle of the night is did she love me or just used me as a toy? This question keeps on playing in my head.. that too when she left she didn't give me any reasons one day we were talking and the next she blocked me on everything..!!

I get anxiety attacks, i get sleep paralysis, I'm disturbed and depressed thinking about her and how she left me like I'm a nobody 🙃

I had that breakup in jan earlier this year and if you ask me I have still not moved on from her. It was for a short period of time but everything felt right.! I don't know, chatgpt gave me answers on why she left me..

And chatgpt started consoling me, when she didn't.!! I wanted to see the world with her, choose her as my one and only love and what's I got in the end.?? Disappointment and a lot of traumas to carry forward,

Sorry that I vented this much, i couldn't hold it back 🙃

Take care of yourselves peoples ❤️🫶🏼

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u/Dry_Tumbleweed_3107 — 2 days ago
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what to do ???

enaku 21 age aaguthu

money wise nalla poitu iruku
na inum hometown la than irukan

but enaku ethulayum interest illa ,i have only interest and that is for making more money

i have no love(i actually rlly dont care ,im fine with it ),i just have 1 dear friend who i can talk to

most of the free time la movies,books and cooking panuvan

travelling panlamnu irukan ,georgia polam nu passport 2 days before tha apply pannunan

and im actually happy and content with the way my life is now .

is it ok or should i move out from my hometown and go elsewhere??

is it ok if i dont love anyone now or living in my parents home now or should i move out to experience "adulthood"?

would love to hear something

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u/Shoddy-Promotion-178 — 3 days ago