r/TamilTwenties

Hindi issues

As I mentioned in my previous post, is it possible to find?

Ithukaga dedicated ah ethachum sub iruka?

Or namma oru sub create pannalama?

or intha sub la pota reach aaguma? (Intha sub oda rules ku comply aaguma?)

Help pannunga guys... 🫠🫠🫠

Hello guys enaku ellartayu onnu kekanum, especially the people living away from your parents (scl/clg hostel, job or marriage or any situation). How often do you talk to your parents?

Na en idha kekanum nenachen naa, my parents don't regularly contact me and in a way it feels like a good thing because I'm not always required to update them on every single thing, I can just go about my days doing what I wanna do and in a way it sounds like independence bcoz I'm not dependent on them for making decisions and all that, I think you get the point.

But sometimes it just feels lonely, ennadhaan frnds nu close ahh neraya per suthi irundhaalum, when they go to talk to their parents every night it feels like I'm doing something wrong/that I'm lonely af or smth like that. I'm trying to understand my parents situation also, maybe avangaluku oru level mela attention/affection kaata theriyaama irukalam, awkward ah irukalaam, but all i do is just try and fail miserably yenaa till now adha pathi yoschaa it feels bad that they don't have time for me or they are not really interested in listening to me apdinu.

Ippo yaarum illangra problem laam illa I can say I have built a really great friend circle, but I kinda feel like I'm going back to the same sad thought that me and my parents don't talk much..

Just wanted to share and see if I could get some advice coz none of my frnds irl could relate to what I was talking about🥲

I am 28m just 35 k salary ennoda miga periya prechanaiye en salary because of that I have been in guilty, family ku ennaala perusa help panna mudila even naa motha salary um veetla kodukuren but en age la irukura frnds laam lakhs la earn panni avanga family ah nalla paathukuranga ennnala mudila nu guilt enna kolluthu Enakum life enjoy pannanum love pannanum nu aasa laam iruku aana I feel enaku enjoy panna thagudhi illa nu feel aaguthu, Naa ippolaam yaarkoodaiyum pesurathe illa munnadiyae enaku friend laam yaarum illa athaan polamabanumnu thonuchi athaan inga solren

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Yaara paathaalum interesting-a irukkanumnu solraangalae, what do you guys even do to be an interesting person?

Just wanted to share something I noticed.

Namma side la programming ah genuinely interested ah irukura people romba kammi madhiri theriyudhu. Most people studies/work kaaga mattum programming learn panranga. But actually nerd ah, things epdi work aaguthu nu deep ah dig panra people, especially low-level stuffs like C, systems programming, OS dev, game dev, Linux, graphics etc romba less.

Enaku local community irukradhu important nu thonudhu. Same interests irukura people kedaikalam, knowledge share pannalam, together ah projects build pannalam, and namma own language/context la technical stuff discuss pannalam.

Western communities la indha maari culture konjam strong ah irukku. People build things together, share what they learn and help each other. Tamil side la especially Discord la, in-depth programming discussions and communities romba kammi ah irukku.

So konjam people serndhu oru small space create pannirukom. Strictly programming and low-level nerd stuff ku mattum. Beginners welcome, but genuinely interested ah irukanum. Just degree/exam kaaga learn panra type illameh, actually things explore panna interest irukanum.

We're also working on a centralized GitHub resource hub where we can collect and share useful books, docs, tutorials and other resources for learning low-level stuff. Basically oru place la useful resources ellam organize panna try panrom instead of everyone searching from scratch.

Idhu advertising purpose illa btw. Server ah promote panna vida, genuinely interested people kedaikanum nu dhaan share panren. If you're actually into this kind of stuff, DM me and I'll send the link. Random ah join panni inactive ah irukradhu vida, interested people mattum irundha community better ah develop aagum.

Idk indha sub ku idhu fit aaguma nu, but majority people inga active ah irukanga so just posting incase someone else is into the same stuff. Just a small initiative from us.

Note : Vibe coding strictly prohibited in our community.

Note 2 : For low level programming only, but anyone have interested can join.

Note 3 : Currently, developing a huge wiki/megathread to find resources easily for learning. guys who join in can able to contribute to it.

https://0xtamil.github.io/archive/

Have been part of this sub for the last year or two from a different account . Turned 30 recently and its probably time to leave this sub and move on to any thirties sub . I would consider my 20s to be the time period where I have done well in lots of aspect and screwed horrible in some . Happy to take any questions if that means you would be able to navigate your 20s better

When someone asks... "What happened in your love story.?"

We got together. But she was the class representative and I was the last bench student. (Like literally)

She wanted a lot of things from life. I wanted lot of things with her in my life. So.......

What's up with yours? Are you guys doing alright.? If not why?

I'm new to reddit for like 10 days.. suggest some good useful subreddit

I'm 29m IT guy, single .. interested in sports(not just cricket, any outdoor like swim, run, volleyball, tennis etc) and obviously cinema.

Also in the phase of finding the right one to be with forever. Any suggestions are appreciated.

Suggest pannunga makkale

24m ramba downfall la irruku manasu vittu pesa pain la solli aaruthala pesa yarachi irrukingala

Worries

1 - 76F mother of my indian friend and her late-born daughter, 26F. After her hearing issue, she was wearing a hearing aid, but sometimes 76F is adamant about not wearing it when she goes out with her daughter, her husband, or a relative.

2- 76F once got a message from indian mobile SIM office about the unlimited calls + data plans, and sometimes from official messages from shops that give offers during festivals as normal messages. 76F started to say, "someone is watching my mobile activities". 26F, my friend, scolded her, and she repeatedly said it was a normal message from the company of the SIM and the shops she visited to buy clothes and jewels. Again, 76F said, "No, it is from that hacker who watches me. You don't know. You don't understand me." My friend, 26F, cried, saying how to stop this. (I advised 26F to tell her mother repeatedly it was a normal message only. I too have no idea)

3 - 76 F even with her hearing aid. She talks nonstop. This incident happened in a cloth shop; the saleswoman only asked, "For what festival are you taking clothes for?" 76F started to say the full history about her being a former working woman in the medical area (76F was a doctor at a young age), how she had her daughter, and her daughter who hates sarees while 76F was taking a saree for herself. The saleswoman just laughed, showing sarees in the shop. 26 F tried showing signals in her hands to talk less or stop talking, but now 76 F was not getting the signals. 76F mocked her daughter, and she told the saleswoman, "My daughter hates when I talk more. "

Questions :

1 - Now 76F and 78M, father of 26F is looking for a groom for 26F, even to the groom's family. (In India, mostly the man's family visits the woman's family to have the first woman glance before engagement and marriage)76F talks a lot and stops the groom and 26F from having a private conversation for 5 minutes on their first meet, saying, "We elders talk. That's enough for today. If you want to talk, we can fix your conversation for another day." Then, the groom's family or the 26F family did not call each other back. My doubt is: how 26 F convince 76F in the current generation that it is not normal to prepare for engagement or marriage before having a normal conversation as a date?

2- How does 26F worry that her 76F is not conscious about her money, as she spends a lot? 26F tried to stop 76F, and 76F still says, "I know what I am doing." How to stop her from spending money?

3 - Once 26F tried to take 76F for a medical check (therapist treatment). 76F said, "I am a doctor. I know about my own body". 76F refused therapist treatment? Any way to convince 76F to get treatment?