u/sincere-sigamani

Vanakam guys! So as you read in the title, today is my first day of college. Before going into the point, I'll just brief about me. I'm an ordinary person from a town and completed my schooling in a reputed school in my district. During my schooling, I barely had a few friends and never spoke to girls despite studying in a co-ed school (coz I've seen many friends who failed in education due to this sort of distraction, so I stayed away from those stuffs).

For the past 5 months, I've been in Chennai and I could see people are close to women without any opposite-gender bias (ofc a town guy would see such things weird). Later, some of my friends also told me to have good friendships with girls in college (so you can engage them during academic discussions, hackathons, etc.). I'm genuinely confused, and now I feel having a healthy convo doesn't literally bring distractions to my career.

Crossly, I studied well in school and got above 90% in every exam, but during the main board exams, I started playing games and ended up with 90.8%. However, I cleared entrance exams and joined a reputed college in Chennai (outskirts).

So let's get into the point:

I prefer a demeanor change (I think it's crucial), so I need suggestions from you guys. How should my character look like in college? (I'll give you analogies):

Dragon PR (spotlight character, famous in college)

Vs

Dragon movie Venkat (the padipps, whose aim is to get an extraordinary placement and settle in life and doesn't involve in any co-activities, also has Gayatri 😁)

Vs

Sabanayagan Ashok Selvan (the lover boy, whose aim is to find a soulmate and enjoy the college life)

So I've shared some of the movie characters which people admire the most. Now you guys decide, based on your experience, what should I become? (Even hybrids are also accepted 😁)

My personal thought:

I thought of completely focusing on studies and getting extraordinary placements and staying alone as in school. My aim is to finish 2 internships and be sycophantic with professors and seniors just for academic help, win at least 1 hackathon, get placed above 50 LPA (my college has the potential for that too).

If you guys are wondering which college I belong to, I'll say people with good crime thriller movie knowledge would have found it just with my analogies. One thing I can say, my college is liberal and enjoyable as well as has a good name and excellence.