u/onphoneallday

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Massage

Is it wrong that I feel uncomfortable that my Fiancé is giving massages to my mother in law (his mother). Context: His family is more affectionate than mine so maybe culture differences. My mother in law has been asking for massages from her older son but now he move with his gf. So she’s been asking for massage from my Fiancé. When we were away from college she calls saying how she misses when he gives her massages bec he does better and Rico . She was working at the time so I understand but still I was uncomfortable. Right now he’s living under her roof and I’m living under my dad roof till we can get our own place.
But she hasn’t been working after a word accident. She been begging for massages which the way she begs is weird. He goes in the weird to give her in the massage while I’m in the coach. Before this incident I told him, I feel uncomfortable that he gives massages to his mom especially the noises she makes. During the time I was in the living room, I got out of the couch came closer and you can hear “moans”. I understand that when you getting a massage you moan from the pressure and pain. My fiance is uncomfortable but he scared that his mom would act weird and mad and then start hating both of us. I understand that but at the end of the day she hasn’t a bf that can do it for her but her bf and her aren’t living together.

So again, am I wrong. The bad guy is this situation where I don’t want my fiancee giving her a massage.

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u/onphoneallday — 24 hours ago