u/optimisticrichgirly

"Going out" Top/ Dresses Dont Work On My Body?? 😭

Hey soft dramatic sisters, I really need your help. I've been searching for a while and feel highly limited in my options for "going out" or elevated casual outfits. Because of this, I have found myself with a wardrobe full of bottoms and basically nothing to wear on top for nice occasions. (Only a few t-shirts and satin botton-down shirts in there 😢)

Ideally, the style of dress/ top I'm looking for would be the SD version of sensual, cute or sexy (ideally think Love Island or DCC but not picky!). It shouldn't be that hard to find BUT...

I have big boobs (34H) 😭 which require a full bra all the time which means that I've never been able to make the following styles of tops/dresses work for me:

  1. Backless (need full bra)
  2. Off-shoulder/ one-shoulder (need the bra once again
  3. Halters (bra usually shows on sides and fabric struggles to cover chest)
  4. "Short" crop tops (Boobs take up a lot of the top making it higher than it should be, and completely changing the look. Sometimes, it just ends up being a bra-top lookng situation that I dont go forward with)
  5. Edit: Boat Necks (make me and the boobs look super wide and boxy)

What has worked well:

  1. Full or 3/4 length spandex-like full coverage ruched tops
  2. Edit: Wrap dresses work SOMETIMES if again in a "sticky" material. Everything else looks matronly, creates gaps and requires a top underneath which takes away from the look

...That's basically it

Am I cooked? Or are there any other styles that work with SD AND my body that you think I haven't thought of yet?

OR if you're in the same situation as me, please let me know if you have any tips that have overcome these issues.

Inclusion of pics would be very helpful with any description/recs ❤️

Thanks in advance!

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u/optimisticrichgirly — 1 day ago

Where do I even start? 😭

Hi guys

I've been lurking here for a while looking at all of your beautiful gardens and I'm here to join your ranks!

This is the current state of my garden as I've just gotten home from living at university.

The question is, what tools do I need to tackle this? And where do I start?

Garden is currently about 6ft tall at the moment

I'm looking to clear it and hopefully have a lawn for most of the garden with wildflowers at the back (because I LOVE bees and birds). As you can probably see, I have a veggie patch at the side which is primarily potatoes at the moment.

It will just be my husband and I working on it.

We currently have a Strimmer, lawnmower, sheers, shovels and hand shovels

Any other advice or tips are very much appreciated!

u/optimisticrichgirly — 16 days ago