u/orangecowboypony

I don’t want kids but my boyfriend vomits at the idea of me being a mother.

I don’t want kids but my boyfriend vomits at the idea of me being a mother.

HIIII GIRLIES 💕💐✨🍰🍼👶🏻🐣

So!!! I’ve been with my handsome lovely boyfriend for a LONG time, we even recently celebrated my birthday together, the cake was SOOO cute even though it tasted like dogshit. At least they tried!

I am SO LUCKY that I have a partner who supports me not wanting children! Luckily for me, he doesn’t want them either!

The problem is, I still think it’s so hot to imagine him as a father and the exact scenarios neither of us want or dream of. But when I ask him if he thinks I would be a hot mom, he seemed DISGUSTED?!? Like, what do you mean you don’t fantasize about getting baby vomit on our clothes together and having our spawn latch onto my nipples till they’re raw? You don’t think it’s hot that something can grow inside me and rearrange my organs and shoot out of my cooter and then scream for the next 18 years?

Does he not love me? I can’t move past the fact that maybe I just love him more, and our relationship will be forever unequal. It’s really hurtful and really skewing my judgement about our future together as a childless couple. I don’t even think he’d love me if I was a worm. He fucking hates me.

couldn’t decide what I wanted for dinner so here’s my spread!!!! 🪱🧁🫀🍥🫁

u/orangecowboypony — 4 days ago

Wanting to Support

Hi folks. Without going into too much detail (because really, I don’t have many details), my best friend has been informed by her doctor that they’ll need to paralyze her stomach and set her up with a feeding tube due to medical issues she’s been having.

How can I support her? What are things that you guys wish people knew, or ignorant questions you wish weren’t asked? I want her to be as comfortable as possible, and she’s scared out of her mind. If anyone has recommendations for things to put in a care package, it would be extremely appreciated. Thanks in advance

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u/orangecowboypony — 10 days ago