u/paletteandpetri

Hi lovelies 🙋🏼‍♀️✨

I am looking to make a few more genuine friendships where we can ultimately have wonderful conversations, laugh at the silliest of things and support each other when it matters. It would be wonderful to also share experiences and just exist in the community together.

I am open to friendships anywhere, so location and time zones do not matter to me at all. My schedule is a little all over the place, so I am perfectly content with our conversations finding their own rhythm and unfolding naturally, at any time of the day, rather than us having a rigid messaging style.

I am femme-leaning and incredibly curious about life, with interests that span completely different worlds. I love to spend an afternoon in a museum or at home reading a novel; however, I am also equally likely to decide I want to learn something new, try a different activity or sport, travel to a new country, or even disappear down a rabbit hole and completely become fixated on the subject at hand.

I would say that I am quite a spiritual person. Do I expect you to be? Not one bit. But I would enjoy conversations centred around the little mysteries of life now and then, and I’d love to randomly ask you, “but do you think aliens believe in us?”

I have a slightly odd relationship with horror. I adore it, yet I am completely terrified at the same time, and apparently I am fond of being scared as long as I am able to complain about being scared afterwards. 😂 I’ve also already started counting down the days to Halloween and all the activities that await.

I prefer to live my life to the fullest, and I do not put limits on who I can be. On one particular day I might want to travel to Japan to learn how to drift, the next I might want to attend a rave, and the day after that, I might even want to attend a fashion show — which would inevitably be followed by me asking, “so, are you coming with me?” lol.

As much as I strive to live my life in that way, I am a firm believer in cherishing the little things in life. I slow down when necessary, write stories, stargaze (I adore astronomy), take boring Polaroid photos and collect trinkets. I wholeheartedly feel that life is made up of these moments, and despite the horrors, they remain beautiful and deserve to be cherished.

As for a glimpse of my personality, I consider myself to be warm-hearted, curious (as mentioned before lol), silly once I am comfortable and most likely a little more talkative. I am passionate about certain things and the stances I hold in life, and I am certainly not afraid to stand up for what I believe in when it matters. I also value kindness, humour, emotional intelligence, individuality and being able to be yourself without feeling the need to be performative.

I would love to meet people who are similarly open-minded and curious. I do not expect us to have everything in common, as we are able to learn about each other. I feel it’s wonderful if someone can tell me, “that’s not what I am interested in, but tell me more,” or even say, out of utter disbelief, “you have lost your mind, but you are my friend alright” lol.

I honestly value mutual effort, however I am not seeking a connection with a giant rule book and restrictions. Life will indeed become busy at times, and constant communication may not always be possible, but to me, the littlest forms of connection matter the most then. I would love to send each other memes, interesting literature, random pictures, and even valid rants about the silliest or most serious of things. We don’t always have to be actively talking to still feel connected. It’s important to let a genuine connection unfold rather than forcing it just to keep the conversation alive.

I am also fond of travelling, so if we do become good friends, I think it would be wonderful to meet without any pressure or expectations. As for what I prefer regarding your age, please be older than 26 years old. It’s important to me that we are at somewhat similar stages of our lives and can relate to each other in some way, shape or form.

I’d love to hear from you if you think we’d get along. Please tell me a bit about yourself, what brings you joy and which song you would sing at a karaoke bar, and why?🎤