I know you are out there, and maybe, just maybe, you come across this message so I'm putting it out into the reddit-verse..

Even though I lead a full life, I am truly missing that special, most important person - my partner in crime and life.

If you're out there and are reading this, I can't help but wonder if you feel the same way too. Not because anything is wrong, or incomplete in your life, but because somewhere out there is a person whose absence you notice in the spaces where connection should be.

I am based out of Toronto, and ideally looking for someone who is local or at least "reasonably" close. I do believe that connections are not limited by geography, so if something in this post resonates VERY strongly with you - feel free to reach out.

I am a cis female, 48, and generally would describe myself as a chapstick lesbian (insert equivalent term used today!) I have an established career, and have worked hard to get where I am. I am hoping to meet someone who is 38-58. I am generally attracted to other soft mascs, chapstick gals and femmes. But more importantly I am attracted to genuine kindness and authenticity. Knowing what you want and doing it or going after it is important. Being able to have long conversations about anything and everything is something that I truly crave. I would generally describe myself as a homebody, but I like to travel, try new restaurants and go to concerts as much as I enjoy a quiet weekend binging great TV and ordering in.

I believe in constant growth and lifelong learning and like to think that while we're currently living separate lives, we're slowly becoming the people we'll be when we finally meet.

Until then, I hope life is kind to you.

Les4Les F4F. Monogamous. Soft/Sporty Masc. In search of a genuine emotional connection, reasonably aligned morals and a mutual attraction to each other. Any expression welcome. (Femme, butch, masc, stud etc.) Age: 28-42 years ish.

Me: 175lbs, 5’7”, Fit/Sturdy Build, Green Eyes, Thick Lashes, Long brunette ombre to blonde hair, Many Tattoos.

I walk confidently within society fully out and proud. I don’t have a problem with appropriate PDA. I am financially secure without debt.

I am hoping to find someone around VA or CO as I travel between both states a couple of times of the year for family. (I am based in coastal VA , but travel to Denverish, CO to stay a few months.)

I am a newish veteran trying to find my place in the world with a lot of grace, forgiveness and patience for myself in the process. I am in therapy.

I’m looking for a romantic slow burn, getting to know each other at first as friends with flirting, attraction and finding compatibility with the intentions of dating long term. The pace will be determined on feeling safe, with clear communication. I’m in no rush and want things to develop organically with a good foundation.

I’m a laid-back type with a lot of enthusiasm and drive for the things that matter to me the most. I love getting out in nature, bonding with family/friends, exploring/hiking different areas, going to festivals, searching for fossils on a beach, learning history at museums, zoos, art galleries, etc. (If we go to a natural history museum or zoo, you will never need a guide with me around.)

I am equally into relaxing on the couch on a rainy day enjoying a good documentary or show, while snuggled up in my favorite green hoodie with a cup of hot tea and good company. Or painting a forest from a recent adventure, listening to Lana Del Rey or LotR sound track.

By nature, I am not a city dweller, but visiting one occasionally for novelty’s sake can be fun. My social energy levels depends on who I’m with and where we are. Sometimes I need some quiet solo time every now and then to recharge.

I’m a bit of a nerd of many different subjects with a sense of humor, so I know a lot of fun facts and enjoy dorky, but clever puns. Banter is appreciated, but only if everyone is having fun of course.

Physical movement and exercise is an important foundation of my daily life, so someone who also is into regular basic fitness is highly preferred. For me, I run between9-15miles a week and lift 3x per week for mental health, marathon training and fitness.

For my future, I imagine building a semi-independent, peaceful homestead together with my partner in a robust tight community made up of family and friends and an earthly based existence. I’m not anti-technology; I just don’t want it to be in every single corner of my life. I’m thinking of a reasonable, negotiated balance.

Interests: I’m an artist of many mediums, single player open world switch/retro games, anime, shows, movies, diy projects, plants/gardening, animal enthusiast, history, dnd, hockey, reading/writing, evolution, philosophy, exploring, road trips, hiking, music, exercise, brunches etc.

Deal Breakers (In no particular order):

-I am anti-AI.

-No Trump supporters or conservatives/republicans.

-I have a dog, 2 snakes and some invertebrates. I’m more of a dog person, but I can chill with any cat who is okay with dogs. And also, if the cat is indoors. (I don’t support outdoor or declawed cats.)

-Physical intimacy is important to me. I’m probably not compatible with anyone on the ace spectrum.

-I cannot tolerate angry yelling of any sort.

-I’m Atheist. I don’t care if you’re religious, please respect that I am not.

-Be honest, but tactful. I prefer direct communication. I am good at difficult conversations, but expect the same in return.

-I believe in science and empirical evidence.

-No bigotry/discrimination.

-No love bombing.

-I’m child free by choice.

-I’m not into substances or smoking and I only drink occasionally.

-Must be financially responsible.

-Have basic hygiene and tidiness.

-Treats those who owes them nothing with kindness.

If you like what you have read, please DM me and give a basic introduction about yourself. (Any ‘Heys’ or ‘hi’s will be ignored. Sorry.) I’m happy to trade selfies.

*If at any time you’re not feeling it, the attraction isn’t there or the vibes aren’t right, please speak up and I will do the same. People should be comfortable with saying they aren’t into it without feeling guilt or fear of retaliation. That’s just the nature of dating.

okay so i kinda suck at writing these but im looking for someone i can text everyday and build with. i can be a bit shy sometimes but i open up when the vibe is right. i love art, music, books, nature, and science! ideally our interests align and we can gab over random facts. dm me your favorite song atm, and why so ik you read this.

Edit: by real lesbians i mean NO MEN and real humans since theres a ton of bots on this sub now.

Soft masc looking for that one kind of conversation that goes on for days and ends up with us realizing somewhere along the way we fell in love with each other!

I love to talk but theres nothing better than watching your person excitedly talk about their special interests.

CisLes4CisLes. Monogamous. Soft/Sporty Masc. In search of a genuine emotional connection, reasonably aligned morals and a mutual attraction to each other. Any expression welcome. (Femme, butch, masc, stud etc.) Age: 28-42 years ish.

Me: 175lbs, 5’7”, Fit/Sturdy Build, Green Eyes, Thick Lashes, Long brunette ombre to blonde hair, Many Tattoos.

I walk confidently within society fully out and proud. I don’t have a problem with appropriate PDA. I am financially secure without debt.

I am hoping to find someone around VA or CO as I travel between both states a couple of times of the year for family. (I am based in coastal VA , but travel to Denverish, CO to stay a few months.)

I am a newish veteran trying to find my place in the world with a lot of grace, forgiveness and patience for myself in the process. I am in therapy.

I’m looking for a romantic slow burn, getting to know each other at first as friends with flirting and finding compatibility with the intentions of dating long term. The pace will be determined on feeling safe, with clear communication. I’m in no rush and want things to develop organically with a good foundation.

I’m a laid-back type with a lot of enthusiasm and drive for the things that matter to me the most. I love getting out in nature, bonding with family/friends, exploring/hiking different areas, going to festivals, searching for fossils on a beach, learning history at museums, zoos, art galleries, etc. (If we go to a natural history museum or zoo, you will never need a guide with me around.)

I am equally into relaxing on the couch on a rainy day enjoying a good documentary or show, while snuggled up in my favorite green hoodie with a cup of hot tea and good company. Or painting a forest from a recent adventure, listening to Lana Del Rey or LotR sound track.

By nature, I am not a city dweller, but visiting one occasionally for novelty’s sake can be fun. My social energy levels depends on who I’m with and where we are. Sometimes I need some quiet solo time every now and then to recharge.

I’m a bit of a nerd with a sense of humor, so I know a lot of fun facts and enjoy dorky, yet clever puns. Banter is appreciated, but only if everyone is having fun of course.

Physical movement and exercise is an important foundation of my daily life, so someone who also is into regular basic fitness is highly preferred. For me, I run between 9-15 miles a week and just started to lift 3x per week. (For mental health, marathon training and fitness.)

For my future, I imagine building a semi-independent, peaceful homestead together with my partner in a robust tight community made up of family and friends and an earthly based existence. I’m not anti-technology, I just don’t want it to be in every single corner of my life. I’m thinking of a reasonable, negotiated balance.

Interests: I’m an artist of many mediums, single player open world switch/retro games, anime, shows, movies, diy projects, plants/gardening, animal enthusiast, history, dnd, hockey, reading/writing, evolution, philosophy, exploring, road trips, hiking, music, exercise, brunches etc.

Deal Breakers (In no particular order):

-I am anti-AI.

-No Trump supporters or conservatives/republicans.

-I have a dog, 2 snakes and some invertebrates. I’m more of a dog person, but I can chill with any cat who is good with dogs. And also if the cat is indoors. (I don’t support outdoor or declawed cats.)

-Physical intimacy is important to me. I’m probably not compatible with anyone on the ace spectrum.

-I cannot tolerate angry yelling of any sort.

-I’m Atheist. I don’t care if you’re religious, please respect that I am not.

-Be honest, but tactful. I prefer direct communication. I am good at difficult conversations, but expect the same in return.

-I believe in science and empirical evidence.

-No bigotry/discrimination.

-No love bombing.

-I’m child free by choice.

-I’m not into substances or smoking and I only drink occasionally.

-Must be financially responsible.

-Have basic hygiene and tidiness.

-Treats those who owes them nothing with kindness.

If you like what you have read, please DM me and give a basic introduction about yourself. (Any ‘Heys’ or ‘hi's will be ignored. Sorry.) I’m happy to trade selfies.

*If at any time you’re not feeling it, the attraction isn’t there or the vibes aren’t right, please speak up and I will do the same. People should be comfortable with saying they aren’t into it without feeling guilt or fear of retaliation. That’s just the nature of dating.

Hello Darlings,

I’m a 20F from Europe searching for my somebody. I’m mostly a masc, i have like a prince charming like mullet. I love traveling, photography, gym and philosophy. I like deep conversations, so if you’re a small talk person dont interact haha. I’m quite social and hyper sometimes but i can also be serious and romantic.

Generally about me: i’m pretty short, dark blonde hair, light eyes. I do like staying busy, doing activities or just go on walks. Also like playing all sorts of games. You can also make me happy with a good story or movie.

I find passion and good style very attractive honestly quite a must for me. I wanna be able to motivate each other for our dreams. Someone with ambition. Someone who would like going to the pub in the evening some weekends for a drink.
Anyways think thats it :)

I want to chat with someone that feels like a warm bubble bath in winter, when the house is freezing but the water is scalding hot.

Someone who makes me feel safe and soft and calm.

Someone who doesn’t mind that sometimes I wander off like a stray cat and trusts I will always come home.

Someone who doesn’t need me to be anything in particular but wants me regardless.

I work a lot but spend my weekends also working, and the first meeting on my calendar every day is empty time to get my day in order. I have plants on my balcony and my office philodendron has a name.

I am looking for someone with a calm energy, who uses blackout curtains and fussy little bottles of linen spray, will read Architectural Digest with me and thinks manicures are routine. I am strict about sleep hygiene and love fresh flowers, and my tattoo artist sends me memes about therapy.

I'm soft masc, well educated, settled where I am but ready to move if feasible for both of us.

I am looking for a partner to grow old with. I want someone I can be stupid with. Cuddle, tease, laugh at nonsense, talk about life at 2am and still feel completely safe with.

We can just say what we mean instead of playing guessing games. Where we're a team, even when we're being idiots.

I miss the idea of falling for someone and slowly becoming us. The mushy, annoying, comfortable kind of love.

We travel when we want to.. Maybe we just order food and never leave the couch binging tv all day.

Please find me already😔

Looking for women only (34+) men please don't DM.

30 F4F NYC :)
I yearn for a real lover. A woman who knows what she wants, who is sure of herself, who makes room for me in her life and lets me fall into it naturally. Someone I can love loudly and softly, passionately and peacefully. Someone I can come home to and still want to tell everything to.
I don’t think I’m asking for too much. I just want a love that feels intentional. A love that feels safe. A love that feels like two women choosing each other, over and over again, in all the little ways.
Ugh. Is it really that hard to ask for? 😭
DM if you want to connect. I prefer closer to NYC

33F, physician, looking to connect with women (online for now) preferably from the United States.

I’m already an attending in my country but will apply to residency programs next match cycle (different specialty). I am working toward moving to the US to build a medical career there, live openly, freely, and safely as a lesbian and eventually have a family of my own. It’s a huge goal but I believe having someone special to look forward to would make the difficult parts a lot easier.

I am calm, curious, open minded, nonjudgmental,
shy at first and prefer older women who are kind, flirtatious, emotionally mature, and ambitious. Women who understand what it’s like to work hard toward a better life.

Checking on each other, messages, calls, venting and motivating each other through exhausting days, celebrating little victories, and having someone who genuinely wants to see you succeed and can talk to anytime is what I am looking for. I’d just love to meet people who understand the journey and build a little community along the way.

My DMs are open and questions are welcomed.

Howdy!! My name is Rio and I love women so fucking much. I am open to all sorts of connections, casual, friendly, or committed and deep. Anything that is genuine, open and honest. My personal preference is to not date multiple people at a time, if I feel a connection I want to explore with somebody, any flirting or anything with anyone else will stop, it is just my personal preference and it says nothing of my expectations of that person to commit to me. Meaning, just because I invest into only one romantic relationship, does not mean that person has to do the same for me, unless we have that talk and agree to be committed. Does that make sense? I hope it makes sense lol.

I would really love to date someone who is in California. I love California!! I've always lived here and it just feels like home. I'm 5'8, Caucasian, and honestly skinny but I am working on that, I have started working out and strength training to improve my physique and to look and feel strong. I am masc leaning and always have been, however I refuse to put myself in a box in terms of my expression. There are times I enjoy make up and stuff like that. I am autistic and have ADHD. Mental health is a priority for me, as is open and honest communication. I have worked very hard to love myself before getting into a relationship, I am at a point mentally that I feel very confident in my ability to be a loving and caring partner.

My style is very alternative (think 90s grunge lol) but again I do not feel the need to put myself in that box, and that box alone. I am a huge animal lover, I have 2 dogs and a cat. I have my own business where I board and train dogs. I want the type of relationship where we raise each other up, instead of dragging each other down. For me, having a real life outside of a relationship is vital, balance in life is key. I need someone who has personal goals for themselves and hopes and dreams! I love hiking, drawing, reading, true crime, animation and other stuff I just can't list them all. Oh, I'm also starting college in January, most likely for a Criminology degree :).

If I am interesting to you, reach out! I'd love to chat. And as mentioned previously, I love women. There are so many types of women I am attracted to it would be damn near impossible to list it here.

Edit: forgot to say, I don't really have any age preference, I do prefer older but it's not a deal breaker at all if you are younger. No, you're probably not too old for me. Older women are so fucking gorgeous.

I had two realizations during a recent trip:

1- I am socially awkward
2-I really want friends

I will admit that coming out of that trip I was convinced that I needed to pursue an Autism diagnosis, alas my therapist assured me that I wish it was Autism but instead it is PTSD/ADHD/OCD looooool, If I ever make it in life and have to deliver a speech and thank any one person in my life and accredit them my life achievements it would be her.

I am coming here with no expectation, and I hope that lifts a heavy weight off of the shoulders of potential people sending me a DM, and optimistically not end up being ghosted.

I am determined to dig a hole in my bed ever since I got laid off work in June, and I have been very welcoming of the frequent naps that would hopefully make up for the restlessness of the 8 past years of employment in B2B.
I am an introvert who wants to be extroverted which feels like going against the current of overwhelm, overthinking, and existential dread…

I am told that I am funny, sometimes unintentionally. I would also describe myself as an optimistic pessimist who believes that we are all connected and share a sameness but that some of us are dipshit assholes.

I have a long list of books that I buy, want to read yet end up procrastinating on and getting immersed in endless daydreams, but I would say that it is one of my hobbies (Fav: The Grass Widow/ Dracula/On anarchy… )I love walking, and I am currently trying to dissociate and break my record of 50K steps in one day,
I like watching random youtube videos, movies, series, and anime(Fav: Fear and loathing in las Vegas/ One battle after another/ The Phoenician scheme…..) I enjoy animated films specially anything 2D drawn (Studio Ghibli).

I like talking about politics, I watch the news (sometimes religiously) I like being up to date with what’s happening in the world shout out to ground news, Channel 5, and independent journalists.

Bref ! Send me a random fact if you are interested in chatting

Hi lovelies 🙋🏼‍♀️✨

I am looking to make a few more genuine friendships where we can ultimately have wonderful conversations, laugh at the silliest of things and support each other when it matters. It would be wonderful to also share experiences and just exist in the community together.

I am open to friendships anywhere, so location and time zones do not matter to me at all. My schedule is a little all over the place, so I am perfectly content with our conversations finding their own rhythm and unfolding naturally, at any time of the day, rather than us having a rigid messaging style.

I am femme-leaning and incredibly curious about life, with interests that span completely different worlds. I love to spend an afternoon in a museum or at home reading a novel; however, I am also equally likely to decide I want to learn something new, try a different activity or sport, travel to a new country, or even disappear down a rabbit hole and completely become fixated on the subject at hand.

I would say that I am quite a spiritual person. Do I expect you to be? Not one bit. But I would enjoy conversations centred around the little mysteries of life now and then, and I’d love to randomly ask you, “but do you think aliens believe in us?”

I have a slightly odd relationship with horror. I adore it, yet I am completely terrified at the same time, and apparently I am fond of being scared as long as I am able to complain about being scared afterwards. 😂 I’ve also already started counting down the days to Halloween and all the activities that await.

I prefer to live my life to the fullest, and I do not put limits on who I can be. On one particular day I might want to travel to Japan to learn how to drift, the next I might want to attend a rave, and the day after that, I might even want to attend a fashion show — which would inevitably be followed by me asking, “so, are you coming with me?” lol.

As much as I strive to live my life in that way, I am a firm believer in cherishing the little things in life. I slow down when necessary, write stories, stargaze (I adore astronomy), take boring Polaroid photos and collect trinkets. I wholeheartedly feel that life is made up of these moments, and despite the horrors, they remain beautiful and deserve to be cherished.

As for a glimpse of my personality, I consider myself to be warm-hearted, curious (as mentioned before lol), silly once I am comfortable and most likely a little more talkative. I am passionate about certain things and the stances I hold in life, and I am certainly not afraid to stand up for what I believe in when it matters. I also value kindness, humour, emotional intelligence, individuality and being able to be yourself without feeling the need to be performative.

I would love to meet people who are similarly open-minded and curious. I do not expect us to have everything in common, as we are able to learn about each other. I feel it’s wonderful if someone can tell me, “that’s not what I am interested in, but tell me more,” or even say, out of utter disbelief, “you have lost your mind, but you are my friend alright” lol.

I honestly value mutual effort, however I am not seeking a connection with a giant rule book and restrictions. Life will indeed become busy at times, and constant communication may not always be possible, but to me, the littlest forms of connection matter the most then. I would love to send each other memes, interesting literature, random pictures, and even valid rants about the silliest or most serious of things. We don’t always have to be actively talking to still feel connected. It’s important to let a genuine connection unfold rather than forcing it just to keep the conversation alive.

I am also fond of travelling, so if we do become good friends, I think it would be wonderful to meet without any pressure or expectations. As for what I prefer regarding your age, please be older than 26 years old. It’s important to me that we are at somewhat similar stages of our lives and can relate to each other in some way, shape or form.

I’d love to hear from you if you think we’d get along. Please tell me a bit about yourself, what brings you joy and which song you would sing at a karaoke bar, and why?🎤

Hey girlies, apparently I'm back on Reddit looking for someone to make my days a little more interesting.

I'm 25, a cis woman (AFAB), and live about an hour north of London. I'm a bar manager, share a house with a friend and have a pretty well-put-together life. I'm at the point where I'd really like to find someone to share some of it with.

Dating apps have never really worked for me. I've found they tend to either move incredibly quickly or make it difficult to actually figure out whether you genuinely like someone before you're expected to go on a date. I actually really like the idea of meeting someone online first, talking for a while, getting comfortable with each other and seeing whether we naturally click.

Then, if we do, we can figure out the whole IRL thing.

A bit about me

I'm lucky enough to have a really close group of friends — five of us girls who spend most weekends together. We've recently been on holiday together, and our usual plans range from gigs and eating out to staying in, playing games, watching films and drinking far too much wine.

When I'm on my own I'm a little more chilled. I like reading, listening to music and watching sport, so there's a reasonable chance I'll either be recommending you something I've read or trying to convince you to watch a game with me.

I'm pretty easygoing generally, and I think I'm someone who enjoys having a person to do both the exciting things and the completely mundane things with.

What I'm looking for

I'm looking for another woman who is actually interested in getting to know each other and seeing where things go.

I'm not expecting us to declare undying love after three conversations, but I also don't really want something where we talk twice a week and occasionally flirt. Ideally I'd like to find someone where there's genuine chemistry and we gradually become an important part of each other's lives.

I'm open to something casual if the connection is right, but I'm definitely more interested in something that could become a proper relationship.

Personality is much more important to me than having a particular physical type. My exes have all looked completely different, so I don't really have a checklist when it comes to appearance. I'm much more interested in whether I like talking to you, whether we make each other laugh and whether I find myself looking forward to your messages.

I do tend to be attracted to girls who are a little more shy, introverted and sweet, but I'm not ruling out the confident extroverts either. If you're interesting, you're interesting.

Distance & availability

I work evenings as a bar manager, so I'm around most reliably during the daytime on weekdays. Weekends are usually when I'm off doing things with my friends.

I'm based in the UK, but I'm not against long distance. If we get on really well, I'm happy to see where it goes rather than deciding in advance that someone is too far away. Relocation is always an option for the love of my life!

If you're going to message me...

Please tell me a little about yourself!

"Hey" is adorable but doesn't give me much to work with. Tell me your age, where you're from, what you're looking for, something about yourself and what made you decide to message me.

Tell me what I should call you, too.

You don't need to write me a novel — I just want to feel like I'm talking to you rather than receiving the opening line you have sent to hundreds of different Redditors.

If you've read all this and think we might get along, come say hi. I'm curious who I'll meet. 💕

Honestly, I just created an acc after abandoning my old one for almost a decade, and I am looking for someone to mutually follow there lol

A little about me: doing my masters in psychology, want to pursue a PhD in cognitive science. Artist. Writer. I love caving. I study languages. I'd love to chat and connect

@decembrand

Writing this feels strangely vulnerable, but I suppose that’s part of finally allowing myself to be who I am.

I’m 34 and newly out of the closet. It’s taken me a long time to understand and accept this part of myself, and I’m still figuring out exactly what this new chapter looks like. But I know I don’t want fear or uncertainty to keep me from experiencing it.

I’m not trying to force anything into a particular box. I’d love to meet women, make genuine connections, build friendships, flirt, and maybe find romance if the right person happens to come along.

I’m a mom, I work in healthcare, and I’m starting nursing school. I love deeply, laugh loudly, care probably more than I should, and value emotional connection more than almost anything. I want people in my life I can be completely myself around.. the kind where conversation feels effortless and you’re genuinely excited when their name appears on your phone.

I’m open to local or long-distance. Mostly, I’m just finally allowing myself to step into this part of my life and see where it takes me.

If you’re looking for something genuine too, I’d love to hear from you. 🤍

Hey there!

I’m 34, and I’m at a point in my life where I’m not really interested in surface-level connections anymore. I’d love to meet someone where there’s genuine curiosity about each other.
I’m not looking to rush into anything or force a label. I’d rather start with a real connection and see where it naturally goes. If there’s chemistry and we both feel it, I’m open to something serious and meaningful.

I’m looking for someone who actually wants to get to know another person -not someone who disappears after a few days because the initial excitement wears off.
I’m based in NYC, but I’m open to connecting with people elsewhere too. Distance doesn’t necessarily bother me if the connection is there.
If you’re also looking for something genuine-whether that eventually becomes a close friendship, a romantic relationship, or simply a meaningful connection-feel free to say hello. Tell me something about yourself rather than just sending “hey.” I’d genuinely like to know the person behind the message.

Someone who says, “Let’s talk. Let’s get to know each other.” Someone who actually gets excited when they see your name pop up on their phone and secretly hopes you’ll become each other’s favourite notification.
Someone who says, “Let’s give us a real chance. I want to see where this can go. I want you.”
Someone who makes you want to stay up late just because you’re waiting for their call. Someone who notices when you’re unusually quiet. Someone who gets a little offended when you don’t drunk-call them.
Someone who wants to know your little routines not to control you, but because they genuinely care. Someone who remembers the small things you tell them. Someone who makes an effort to understand your life, your moods, your boundaries, your dreams.
Someone who doesn’t make you constantly wonder, “Do they actually want me?”
Someone who communicates. Someone who makes time. Someone who can say, “I’m busy today, but I’ll talk to you later,” instead of leaving you wondering where you stand.
Someone who doesn’t just want the butterflies, flirting and chemistry, but wants the responsibility that comes with loving another person.
I want the kind of love that says:
“I choose you. I want to build something with you. Let’s figure this out together.”
Maybe I’m asking for too much. Or maybe I’m just looking for someone who wants the same kind of love I do. ❤️

Living in the Austin, TX area. Lovely ladies, if you smoke please pass me by as that’s just not for me. I’m a soft butch geek seeking same and I describe my fandoms as: “More Trek than Wars, more DC than Marvel and more Looney Tunes than Disney”. My many hobbies include complex board games, gardening, woodworking, exercising, bicycling, cooking, dancing, concerts, reading, movies, pinball, cosplay - really more than I can count. I also perform in a local brass band. Looking forward to having fun and adventures with the right lady! LLAP 🖖 :)