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Hi, im 19 years old and i will talk a little bit about myself, I like to draw, dance, cook, read, i consider myself as someone who is very talkative but if I feel like you are being nonchalant i will be quiet too because im the kind of person who gets disappointed easily, i always try to be nice yo everyone because i wouldn't want someone treating me bad so i consider you have to treat people the same way you want people to treat you.

What i want in a relationship: I want something serious and mature, loyalty over all ofc and someone who i can trust and trust me, I want someone who can respect me and my boundaries and someone who can understand that before dating we should take time meeting each other

My type: I want someone older, respectful, mature and nice, someone who doesn't want to rush the things and with a kind soul, femenine, and someone who doesn't mind long distance if lives too far away from me since i don't mind either

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Hey!

I'm a 20 year old cis woman, who is looking for an older woman to have a relationship with and have fun! Let tell you a bit about myself first! I am into games (mostly Roblox and the Sims, these are some really fun games that I enjoy to play a lot), reading, watching series, I write stories which are especially romances, and really interested in true crime and psychopathy! I'm more introverted than extraverted, but I have some friends that I care a lot about. I have blonde hair, brown eyes, and am slightly more on the chubby side, so far my description of my looks. I don't mind sending pics when talking to someone, as long as it's reciprocated hehe.

It doesn't matter whether you're from my continent or not, because I am okay with long distance, although it would be so cool to meet each other in real life in the future. I would take you out on some adorable dates, spend a lot of time together, have a lot of cuddles, and we would have the time of our lifes. But still, long distance can be really cool too, with a lot of affection, playing games together, watching movies together, and talking a lot with each other.

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Hiya everybody! I'm a cis 35 year old preschool teacher from Pennsylvania who loves anime, video games, going to the gym when I can and table top rpgs. Im a soft masc, Sagittarius, 5'3'', have brown hair and bluish gray eyes. I have recent pics of me in my profile. Im single and looking for more friends that could build into something more long term from there.

Random fact about me is that I love cosplaying and fursuiting (dressing up as an animal character)

I'm looking to make connections toward hopefully build something real and lasting. I'm open to more casual connections to start and see where things go. I'm open to LDR within reasonable distance

I tend to find myself attracted to longer haired women with a lean to athletic build. Would love to meet someone I could go on adventures with and geek out over hobbies we're passionate about.

Feel free to DM me and I'll be happy to answer any questions 😊

Hey hey happy Sunday, I hope you’re having a great weekend! I’m back again, looking to hopefully make a connection that leads to something long lasting! Putting my feelers out again after a few more fizzled out connections lmaooo. Story of my life truly. 😭

A lil about me, I am a cis lady, from Canada. I am pretty fem, and I’d say I have a very cute, comfortable/casual style. I do want to get a few more tattoos in the future as well! I am about 5’4ish, average size ish (A lil chubby/curvy, but not plus size.), dark brunette and have brown eyes. In terms of like actual hobbies I do spend most of my free time doing fibre crafts. I do love napping when I can, I do smoke pot sometimes, I also enjoy doing my makeup and tweaking my skincare routine, and self care (does this count as a hobby lol?) I love going for long walks with my music blasting, and hiking in the mountains when I have the time, love me some cute coffee dates and I do game sometimes on my switch (Anyone playing tomodachi life?? I’ve been playing nonstop! 🤣) Im trying to get myself back into cooking on a budget, and doing more meal prep so I’m also looking for recipe recs if you have any! I also love pets, if you have one send pics PLZ. I have an alright job, a few good friends and a normal boring life so overall my life is pretty quiet and drama free! Really just looking to share in the monotony of day to day life with someone, the highs and lows and whatever falls between those places too. 😊

Im not really dead set on someone particular or a “type” I’m looking for (slight preference for mascs but? Not a huge deal we got love for all types of ladies), I’m very chatty and am hoping you are too though! I’d love to hear about your day everyday, your hobbies, yours passions and everything else going on! Also please have a good sense of humour! I would prefer if you were close to my age or a bit older (25+), and preferably from Canada or North America? I can’t do huge time zone differences, I enjoy my sleep too much! 😂 I am also monogamous relationship wise, very on the fence about kids, and want to be around people who share the same values (Politically left and an atheist.) Also happy to swap selfies if you wanna see who you’re talking to!

If you do reach out, please tell me your age, where you’re from and a little blurb about you so we can get to chitty chatting! I’d love to hear about what you’re up too this weekend! Thanks for stopping by! ✨

Looking for someone who truly wants to yap throughout the day, about our day, about every little thing, no matter how miniscule.

Someone with a big personality and who can handle mine 😅

Someone passionate and empathetic.

Looking for my person 🥹

I'm really into masc 🤤 I myself am a bit androgenous, but lean more feminine. I'm a pink haired, tattooed girlie 😇

I am obsessed with plants and gardening. Looove coffee and enjoy a bit of 🥦 I love thrifting and yard sailing. I have two cats, a beagle, and 6 chickens. I have a mini homestead but would love a real one one day.

Ideally I'd love if you were somewhat close to me (I'm in VA, USA!)

Hello! My name is Ana. I’m 21 and looking for love. Whether in the form of romance or friendship, I’m open to all.

I’m a nerdy black girl from the south. Living in one of top 2 states with the lowest queer population has been extremely isolating for me.

As for my hobbies, I have many. I love anime/manga so much that some might consider me an addict. I enjoy cooking and do it every chance I get. Recently I’ve been obsessed with making this delicious toast with sautéed apples, jam, a smidge of butter, and Brie. Absolutely delicious. I should pivot now before my stomach starts growling. Aside from that, I also enjoy writing poetry, drawing, playing video games, thrifting, listening to music, anything regarding wildlife, & anthropology.

Unfortunately I do possess traits that I feel are better to lay out on the table to avoid disappointment later on down the line. To start, I have chronic health issues. I don’t expect a caretaker or anything because I do well enough caring for myself, but there are times where I can’t do things I want or need which may feel like a hindrance to others. I’m also not very attractive. Not being visually appealing has made making friends difficult and dating impossible. If you’re looking for a Baywatch bombshell, I will highly disappoint. With that being said, I think my cooking skills could make up for that.

This has already been super long so I won’t drag it on any further. New friendships, romance, etc, I’m open for all. Feel free to message me. ❤️

I'm in no position to date. 37 from Canada (CST). Cis-woman, butch.

I'm not looking to date but I am looking for good deep chats and maybe visits from time to time. I work nights (7p to 7a) in the Justice System. Not a Cop.

About me:

5'3" - Overweight but an ex athlete so i'm in process of dropping the weight gained from injuries/not being nice to myself. Brown hair, brown eyes, tattoos, piercings, and I speak 2.5 languages.

I work a lot. I do have a chronic illness but I have to be a contributing member of society so going on disability is not an option. I'd rather work and be in pain than sit at home.

The goal is to start heading to the gym quite soon. I used to lift in high school and in my early 20's, it's time to get back to it. I was a two sport athlete growing up. Ringette from August to April and Fastball from Mid April to August. It was both an expectation from my parents and I enjoyed it so I continued. After my body broke down enough that I needed surgery, I let myself go and it's time to get back into being strong again.

I am child-free by choice. I was a volunteer coach for 25 years and I don't see myself wanting kids in the future. I'm not 100% no kids (I cannot have kids myself, I've had a hysterectomy), I'm just not in a place to have kids right now.

I no longer speak with my family. There's a long history there but to make it short, I was tired about always looking from the outside in.

My goals:

I didn't really get the opportunity to travel as a kid. My family always wanted the cabin instead of the travel so my goal is to really travel in my new life. Anywhere and everywhere! I'm currently looking into moving to the UK as part of the US ancestry visa program.

I would like to find myself, the true me. I know who I am but I have trauma that I haven't really dealt with fully and I know that makes me in no position to date. I am currently in therapy, actively working on being the best person I can be.

What I like:

Psychology: I love learning about human behavior and what makes people tick. I love forensic psych, behavioral psych, clinical, all of it. I'm currently considering taking online courses on my way to getting a PhD in Psych but, also getting a degree towards becoming a Librarian (my post law enforcement plan).

Sports: I love analyzing them, learning how hard athletes worked to get where they are. I've been skating on ice since I could walk, on concrete since the age of 6. I finished playing ball with an avg. of .776, line drives through short or dead at the pitcher were my specialty unless my coach called for me to place it. I was a catcher, and could keep hits to a minimum if my pitcher was locked in. Hockey is religion up here, so I know the game quite well. I like to watch rugby, baseball (now that there's a pitch clock), fast pitch, CFL, Athletics, Figure Skating, Gymnastics, man I could keep going but in a narrow sense. I like sports.

Books: I was reading chapter books in Grade 1, sent to the school library for book reports. I lost the thrill of reading in high school and didn't pick it back up until I was in my 30s. I now read Thrillers mostly, high preference to serial killer/psychological thrillers. I also like true crime, sci-fi, fantasy (dystopia), and true historical books.

Food: I really like food. I like trying new things and looking at recipes to try. Not a foodie but also not a picky eater. My step-mom wasn't/isn't the best cook and I have found it hard to eat her food ever since I've eaten good food! Also, I've noticed a huge change in my palette as well.

TV: I love television, a lot of it is background noise for me but thanks for my ADHD I can retain storylines while doing other things. My all-time shows are: E.R, Grimm, Face-Off, Forged in Fire, Law & Order (all 5), FBI (All 3), Criminal Minds, Bull, Bones, Castle. I don't have comfort shows, I don't really rewatch episodes. My current shows: Elsbeth, Criminal Minds, The Rainmaker, The Hunting Wives, Lincoln Lawyer, etc... I actually have an app that keeps track of everything for me.

Trivia: All different kinds really. I retain a ridiculous amount of information. I like to go to trivia events when I can. It's not often though.

What I'm looking for:

A woman 30 - 50 who has a career. Is looking for companionship but not necessarily a girlfriend. Late night chats, same interests.

I'm willing to travel to them so LD is open! Obviously I'd like to chat and get to know one another before falling into bed if it goes that way. Think of like FWB type deal.

Know that if i'm sleeping with someone it's ONLY that someone.

This is quite honestly a long shot but if you're interested, drop me a comment or DM.

Hi there! My name is Katie, and I'm a 31-year-old lesbian from the Metro Detroit area of Michigan.

I'm currently a nursery school teacher and working on a master's degree in library science with a concentration in archival administration. (I’m trying really hard to get a job in this field while I’m still in school, but no luck so far!)

I can come across as shy at first, but I'm actually a pretty goofy person once I get going!

I'm 5'7" and fat, though I am on a wellness journey. I have short curly brown hair and green-ish eyes. Relatively heavily tattooed. I fall more on the feminine side in terms of clothes and style, but I wouldn't necessarily consider myself a femme.

Leftist.

I'm a spooky babe, obsessed with all things horror. (Wanna see my Bride of Frankenstein tattoo?)

I would consider myself spiritual and a little witchy, but I'm not too "woo-woo.”

I love trying out new hobbies. I’m a jack of all trades, master of some. In particular, I love crocheting and candlemaking. I’ve also recently started to get back into reading more regularly, which has been a lot of fun!

I'm looking for a woman who is 25-40 years old, monogamous, and in search of a serious relationship. I'm not entirely sure if I want to have children, but at the moment I'm leaning towards remaining child-free. I'd love to meet someone who lives fairly close to me, but distance isn't a deal breaker.

Do you think we might make good friends — or potentially something more? Reach out!

Hii, my name is Mariah, I also go by Riah and MJ. I live in the US, Midwest specifically. I don't really label myself. When asked about my sexuality I usually just say that I love people. I don't really care about gender; however, I tend to vibe better with women.

A little bit about myself. I am 5'4, plus size and masc presenting (my friends say I'm a sassy stud lol). I wear glasses, have a couple of tattoos and have dreads. I'm a very shy person when first meeting someone but once I get comfortable you will have to tell me to shut up. I laugh a lot; I will laugh at almost anything. I play an unhealthy amount of video games. I love music specifically rnb but I listen to all kinds of music (always looking for new music). I love psychological horror whether it's a movie or a video game, i love a good scare!

I am looking to meet someone to connect with! Distance isn't a problem. I am looking for someone who isn't gonna rush. Willing to take time to get to know each other. Would love someone who I could share my interest with, play games and watch movies with! Someone who can communicate and is actually emotionally available.

Feel free to message!!<3

Thought I'd just give this a try because why not 👀 I'm 22F, lesbian, and live in India, still in college studying to be a healthcare worker. I'm a femme and open to anyone. I'm 5'3 and have black hair and light brown skin.

Now that that's out of the way, I love to read! I read a lot of different things (mostly fiction, sometimes memoirs too) so I'm always open to recommendations, if I find something interesting enough I'll pick it up! I also write stuff, mostly poetry though, although I'd say I'm quite amateur and enjoy the process of it more. I love to go on walks, sometimes write cutesy letters and notes for the people I love, pet cats (and dogs, love them both), sing, and tend to have mild occasional existential crises. I love stargazing and taking pics of the sky and moon so be prepared to receive them occasionally if you decide to reach out ;)

I like arts and crafts, was huge into origami, embroidery, making tiny clay things etc when I was younger, hoping to pick it back up when I get more time! I love music, I listen to a lot of Hozier, Noah Kahan and Florence so there's that.

There's so much stuff I'd like to do someday! I want to learn crocheting, gardening, and baking and so much more. I'm open to trying new things, and love listening to people talk about their interests too and what matters to them. I'm quite non judgemental, so you can feel free to vent to me about anything and I'd listen.

I like meaningful relationships, people who are empathetic and kind, and good communicators. I believe that you can always learn something new from anyone in life, regardless of their age and background. I love talking to people, learning new things and have a collection of very random facts I just occasionally tend to drop lol.

I'm the kind of person who would love to be there emotionally for my partner, try to be their safe space and put in the effort to talk things out when there's a problem. I value honesty, compassion and effort a lot.

Hopefully we can make each other smile and have something meaningful and real <3

Feel free to reach out if you feel like you'd click with me!

Hey girls! Had a great week out at the bars and of course had to ruin my weekend by getting sick. Just a stomach thing but I’m still stuck inside. Looking for other people to get through tonight’s depress-fest with while I miss out on the fun.

A little about me: Chapstick vibes, not really butch but definitely (at least probably) not femme. 5’7” ish, glasses, currently all red hair but mostly it’s a dark brown/red combo. Plus-sized/curvy(?), drink socially, 420 Friendly, not religious but sometimes witchy.

Would love to make some queer girl friends, I’m from the South US so, iykyk, it’s hard out here. Keeping this short but I talk a lot (adhd) so be prepared lol. Send asl in first message please!! Talk soon <3

Hi all!

I'm Sonder, she/her, 29 living in Nevada. I've truly just been searching for more people to chat with and hopefully I can also find my favorite notification! I want that feeling of looking at your phone and seeing message and getting butterflies. I miss the flirting and the endless chats with somebody who wants the same in return!

I play a lot of games, mostly on PC and switch, and tend to gravitate towards cozy and story rich games! Persona is my all time favorite series with Baulder's Gate close behind! Always looking to expand my library so let me know if you have any recommendations👀 outside of games I love DnD, and I'm trying to branch back into reading and more creative hobbies like painting!

I know for romantic partners, that attraction is key, so I'm willing to share pictures after talking for a bit! I'm 5'3 on the curvier side. I have a couple tattoos and wear glasses! My best friend describes me as "nerdy cute" so I guess if that's your type?? Definitely more femme leaning! Personality wise, a lot of people liken me to a puppy. I'm loyal (almost to a fault honestly), and I love my people hard. I'm very introverted but once you get me around people I'm comfortable with, the yapping begins😅

Mental health is super important to me. I do have ADHD so I am super prone to the rambles and hyperfixations. I can be impulsive, but not at all a risk taker. I have slight people pleasing tendencies but I promise I'm working on it! I work with elementary schoolers focusing on their mental and behavioral needs throughout the year!

Ideally, I'd love to connect with people close, but distance isn't an ultimate deal breaker if there's a connection! Feel free to send a DM if anything sparks your interest! I'd love to know what we have in common and what your favorite hobbies are😊

I do also have discord, which is definitely preferred form of communication, and if we vibe I'll send you the info!🩷

Ello! I’m a 20F from the netherlands. I’ve struggled with dating because lesbians are just hard to find and if I do find them they want hookups. I’m looking for something real. I love traveling but also just relaxing cozy at home watching music, playing guitar, photography especially analog film photography and being in nature and reading. I enjoy watching f1 on the weekends as well. I would really like someone to play games with, have intelligent conversations. Generally, i’m a huge nerd

More about me: i’m pretty short, and i’m both masc and femme, i’m mainly into femmes but i don’t mind soft masc either. Some days i dress masculine and some days i like to put on a dress with makeup. Travel is a big thing for me: id you don’t wanna travel, we won’t match.

I’m looking for someone who is caring since i’m caring myself, the most attractive thing to me is passion. I wanna be able to support each others dreams and motivate your ambitions and dreams.

I’d love to connect with some fellow lesbians on here for community!

Hello :) This is a long post, but it's because I'm truly hoping to connect with a special woman. I'm a 37 year old single cis woman living in Pennsylvania with a stable career, my own car, and my own place. If the connection is right, I'm open to long distance, but am ideally looking for someone where the ability to actually be together is most viable (PA, OH, NY, DE, NJ, NY, MD, WV). That said, if my post resonates with you, please message me regardless of where you live. I'm looking for a meaningful, deep connection. In case it's a dealbreaker, I do have one child who's 8 from a previous marriage, a very amicable 50/50 coparenting arrangement, and I am not having more children. :)

I'm constantly praised as strong, resilient, and ambitious, but I really am looking for a woman who I can be more relaxed with, and let my hair down around, so to speak. I'm attracted to assertive, competent, intelligent women who can understand and appreciate that I'm independent, but who can also meet me halfway and be the strong one sometimes, too.

I love all things cozy. Sitting by a fireplace with a glass of wine and comfy blankets, some niche documentary or new A24 movie playing, something delicious in the oven, or some good takeout... sounds like a great night to me. I love to read, and am currently rotating between "Water Moon" by Samantha Sotto Yambao and "Blood Over Bright Haven" by M. L. Wang.

I'm a huge film fan but haven't been watching too many new releases lately. I do really want to see Backrooms, though, as I find the aesthetic intriguing. I watch a lot of documentaries. Some of my favorites are "Fire of Love", "Shirkers", and "The Alpinist".

Here comes the more vulnerable part. I have PTSD and do need to be with someone who can understand that. I went through something extremely traumatic several years ago, that no one should ever have to go through, and I am changed from it. (Yes, I am in therapy, and am very pro-therapy!) That said, I really can't handle chaos, inconsistency, dishonesty, or anything that feels unreliable or intermittent as it causes me extreme anxiety stress... I need peace and stability in my life, and I prioritize it. I would not work well with someone who is not a good communicator or who is more fly-by-the-seat-of-pants in planning and lifestyle. I am not a risk taker, and my safety is important to me, so I need to be with someone who can respect that. I also have sensory sensitivities and do not like being in super crowded, noisy environments. If you are someone, for example, who loves to go to big, live concerts all the time, we sadly would not be a fit. I also can get easily scared or stressed around men I do not know, so I hope I can find a woman and partner who is sensitive to that.

One of my major interests and something that is extremely healing for me is being in nature. :) I've also started gardening, and am quite invested in my small flower garden. I have a spreadsheet of all my plants, with columns to denote which butterflies and other pollinators they support. I love to hike and have done a lot of solo hiking this year, which was a really meaningful experience to me. I haven't been out as much this summer because of the heat, but would love a partner who would like to go out into nature with me, and who would tolerate (or maybe even appreciate) that I like to take photos of new bugs I see, or flowers, and learn about the local ecosystem.

I'd say I'm femme (shaped like an old-fashioned Coke bottle, more or less, mid-length brunette hair) but am far from super femme. Like a lot of people, I don't think I fit in some neat box. I am genuinely curvy, though, with a defined waist and am on the thicker side. Happy to exchange photos after connecting for a bit, but I disclose that now because I realize some women are not into curvy women.

Other things I love: cozy video games (I'm playing Stray right now and adore it!), coffee, sitting on my back porch reading a book, sending my friends updates about my plants, going to arts events like film and book festivals, and sleeping in. :)

Okay, I suppose I should end this little mini essay here. I realize this is long-winded for most, but I'm a long-winded person, and language is the primary way I connect. If this resonates with you, please send me a message. I'd love to hear from you. Please be 33+ in age and please tell me your age and some basic information about yourself in your first message. :) Also, I realize I mentioned trauma in this post as a way to be upfront and gauge compatibility since I have a disability, but I would appreciate people not asking for specifics. Thank you in advance for being considerate. :)

At most I will be something you briefly obsess over until you come to your senses.

I am not looking for a grand romantic connection. So far every one of my relationships has stemmed from a strong friendship, and as a result I don’t have a single ex I wouldn’t call with a flat tire at 2am. I am deeply uncomfortable with emotions and expressions of admiration and never once have I told a partner I loved them and truly meant it.

I work a lot, and don’t have much free time outside of work. I don’t have the patience for dates and if I have to make the same small talk over and over again I might actually just scream. The only person I talk to on the phone is a thousand miles away and we schedule check ins through calendar invites for our commutes. I have unreasonably high standards for myself and everyone I keep in my life and truly do not have the patience for mediocrity.

Here is the small talk, we can get it out of the way here: I am 34, 5’2 (5’2.75 at my rheumatologist’s office), lots of tattoos, a moderate amount of piercings, and currently my hair is what my 22 year old hairstylist calls cherry cola red but I am tired of it. When I’m not working my real job I’m at the gym, and when I’m not at the gym for myself I’m there training clients on weekends. I have a handful of friends that are across the country, and I spent my money on plane tickets to see them and my tattoo artist.

I’m looking to meet another woman who’s interested in something genuine and long-term. No pressure or rushing I’d rather start with good conversation and see where it leads.

I travel quite a bit for work, but I make the most of my time at home. I love being outdoors, swimming, collecting fossils, gems, and minerals, trying new foods or at home hanging out with my cats. Im very adventurous and love trying new things. I can also be perfectly content being a home body.

I truly am at a point in my life that I am looking for love and an equal partnership. I’m the kind of person who enjoys taking care of my partner, planning little surprises, and making them feel appreciated. Im very much a provider/protector.

I’m looking for someone to share life with who is full of life, laughter and values honesty.

If you’re looking for someone who’s equal parts adventure buddy, safe place, and a little bit of a rock nerd, send me a message.

Hey! 😊 I’m 25 and figured I’d give this a shot.

I’m looking to meet other women with the intention of eventually finding a relationship if we click. I’m not expecting us to fall in love overnight. I genuinely enjoy getting to know someone first and letting things develop naturally.

A little about me: • I’m 4’11” (yes, I get short jokes all the time 😂). • I enjoy going to the gym, working on my health, watching shows (obsessed with love island rn!), and just spending quality time with someone. • I’m pretty affectionate, loyal, and I value communication a lot. If something’s bothering you, I’d rather we talk about it than leave each other guessing.

What I’m looking for: • 25+. • Someone who knows how to communicate and is emotionally available (please!!). • Kind, honest, and looking for something fun not endless small talk. • Bonus points if you’re funny and can match my energy.

Distance isn’t a huge deal (United states preferred) if we’re both willing to put in the effort. I’m an eastern girly.

If any of this sounds like your vibe, feel free to send me a message and tell me a little about yourself.

Hi! I’m a millennial lesbian looking for some new friends and maybe a potential partner (monogamous). My age range for connection is pretty wide. Most of my friends are millennials or Gen Z, so even if you are in your twenties that is totally fine with me. ☺️

I’m originally from Florida, but I’m living in Minnesota now. I do miss Florida a lot and I’m hoping to move back at some point. I’m a huge Disney fan and being in Florida to go to Disney World often was something I enjoyed a lot! I definitely would love to go there with someone special someday. 🏰💫 I also miss the Florida weather. 🏝️ Minnesota is a beautiful state, but I don’t do well in the severe cold weather during the winters. 🥶 lol

To be open about my situation, I am currently working through a divorce. I experienced comphet being raised in a strict religious household and I was married to a man. Things didn’t work out well for us because we could never connect intimately, and now I understand more since I realized about two years ago that I’m actually a lesbian.

I haven’t experienced sexual intimacy with a woman yet, but I am open to it for the right person. Even though I’m open to it, I’m probably still more of a bambi lesbian. I know I’m more interested in hugs and cuddling type of intimacy. But right now I’m mostly looking just for friends and once I’m officially divorced I’ll be more open for a serious relationship. Going through this situation with my ex is already difficult as it is and I’m not interested in dating during this time. I would just love to have someone kind to talk to and a friend to be there to help me through this chapter of my life. I would really appreciate it a lot. 🫂💗

Other facts about myself — I’m about 5’2”-5’3” tall, slender, with fair skin and dark black/brown hair and green eyes. Even though I’m 35, I was mistaken for being 23 just this year. I look far younger than I actually am. 🤭 I went to an all-girls Catholic high school and I was voted as “most sincere” by my senior class. I love someone’s beautiful heart the most. Kindness and sincerity are very important to me and that is something I value a lot for any kind of relationship.

I was also raised Catholic throughout my life. My religion used to be a big part of my life, but I’ve had to take a step back from that right now since I realized certain things were preventing me from understanding myself and my sexuality. That’s been really hard, especially since I always took my faith to very seriously. I still believe in God and love God very much, but I am not interested in being a part of a church community at the moment.

As I previously said, I’m a big Disney fan. I love animated movies and I even studied digital art and graphic design in college. My favorite Disney movies are mostly the Disney Princess movies, but one of my new all time favorite movies is Inside Out 2! I love the way they illustrated anxiety and since I’ve experienced a lot of anxiety myself I definitely understand. I’m definitely an advocate for mental health, so I appreciated that movie a lot. I’ve also really enjoyed Kpop Demon Hunters! The message of battling our own demons and not being afraid to be your true self really spoke to me. I love the songs in that movie and everything! My favorite TV show is Gilmore Girls and I would love to watch that (or something else) virtually with a new friend sometime.

One of my favorite games to play is Disney Dreamlight Valley on the Switch. 🎮 I’ve also enjoyed the Sims on my computer, but I haven’t played it in a while since right now I’m pretty hooked on Dreamlight Valley.

I’m also a big Taylor Swift and Selena Gomez fan. I love their music. And one of my favorite places to grab some lunch is Chick-fil-A. I also love going to shop at Target or the mall. 🛍️ And I enjoy seeing movies in the theater. I just saw the movie Girls Like Girls in theaters and it made me cry. I thought it was very sweet and beautiful. 🥹 It really touched my heart. I had never seen a movie like that before.

Anyways, thanks for reading my post. If you think we have something in common and would like to be friends please comment below before sending a message. I would appreciate that. Thank you so much! 💖

hiya. i'm from new jersey and would prefer local folks, but i'm open to talking to others. i'm bisexual and demisexual.

i'm looking for someone to get to know. hopefully you're open to discord or voice memos early on. i'm really looking for someone with a good head on their shoulders. i value education, stability, loyalty, independence, and intelligence. specifically someone aged 25-32 or roundabouts there.

my hobbies include baking, crafting, playing webkinz, watching youtube, beading, reading, writing, hiking, and being outside.

tell me a bit about you :) feel free to send me a voice memo from vocaroo to start it out, i like those cx

Must be 18-30. Eccentric, nerdy, gamer, goth/alt style. Luna Lovegood personality (not required), introvert.

Dmv area or long distance all welcome.

No Taylor Swift fans.