u/Lghyns1

Hi. I am 35, Masc/Tomboy from Mumbai (India). I live a very focused life: home, work, gym, back to home. Most of my weekends, I spend cooking and listening to songs. I don’t like doing home chores and laundry, but have to do them. If I get bored, I do grocery shopping and probably buy some clothes and shoes.
With my 11 AM to 8 PM job, I write also and I’m trying to make it another profession.
I’m more introverted than loud. I hang out with the same 3-4 friends. I simply don’t like casual connections or ghosting culture. I value effort, consistency, communication, affection, emotions, and people who genuinely mean and know what they say.
I love feminine energy and want a femme gf (at least around my age) who still believes love should feel safe, kind, intentional, loyal, soft, passionate, and emotionally mature.
I am a hopeless romantic and express my love loudly, loyal from the core.
What I want most in a relationship is: loyalty & communication.
Not looking for something perfect, just genuine.

35 • Mumbai (India) • Lesbian 🌙

I’m someone who still believes love should feel safe, intentional, loyal, soft, passionate, and emotionally mature.
Not perfect just genuine.

My life is usually simple: Gym. Work. Home. Cooking. Sometimes grocery runs, long conversations, or disappearing into music.

I’m more introverted than loud. I don’t enjoy emotionally casual connections or ghosting culture.
I value effort, consistency, communication, affection, and people who genuinely mean what they say.

I love feminine energy - heels, soft moments, playful flirting, emotional depth, and the kind of romance that feels warm instead of performative.

Just hoping to meet someone who is similar to my age and more, kind, emotionally aware, affectionate, loyal, and ready for something real.

Bonus points if:
• you love soft romance
• you communicate openly
• you can handle clingy affection sometimes 😭
• you’d enjoy cooking dates (I’ll cook), late-night food runs, or sitting quietly together doing absolutely nothing💙

Yearning for my future femme girlfriend in heels, in a saree, in anything... or maybe nothing
Ma'am, do you want to play with my short hair? Or would you like to wear my denim shirt?
Can I remove your heels ... or maybe i help you
wear them?
Would you like me to do push-ups and steal a kiss
Or maybe we can go star-gazing from my car through the sunroof (you can totally flex our car as
yours❣️
"Amore, where are you?"

Finally done with hope, dating, and searching for a girlfriend. I’m not saying this just as a lesbian, but more as a human being.
I thought I would find someone because I was carrying a heart filled with pure intentions, love, loyalty, care, and consistency. I didn’t realize that nowadays, almost no one values these things anymore.
I always used to wonder how people could take advantage of others. I thought, “I could never do that.” But I forgot that most people barely even notice sincerity anymore.
Carrying a 90’s-style love in this era feels like a crime.
People cheat casually and justify it by saying, “She knows everything,” or “We’re chill,” or “We can still be friends.”
People pretend to be someone else, talk to you, make you emotionally attached, and then ghost you, just because they got bored or wanted some spice in their life.
And then there are people like us introverts who put in all our effort because we genuinely want a relationship. Commitment. Love. Loyalty.
No harsh feelings toward anyone. I can only say one thing: Maybe I was born in the wrong era.

Yearning for my future femme girlfriend in heels, in a saree, in anything… or maybe nothing 😈
Ma’am, do you want to play with my short hair? Or would you like to wear my denim shirt?
Can I remove your heels 👠… or maybe help you wear them?
Would you like me to do push-ups and steal a kiss 💋?
Or maybe we can go star-gazing from my car through the sunroof (you can totally flex our car as yours 🥰).
“Amore, where are you?”

Tiny disclaimer 💌
I’m genuinely single and looking for a future girlfriend. So if you’re already taken, please don’t flirt with me romantically.

Yearning for my future femme girlfriend in heels, in a saree, in anything… or maybe nothing 😈
Ma’am, do you want to play with my short hair? Or would you like to wear my denim shirt?
Can I remove your heels 👠… or maybe help you wear them?
Would you like me to do push-ups and steal a kiss 💋?
Or maybe we can go star-gazing from my car through the sunroof (you can totally flex our car as yours 🥰).
“Amore, where are you?”

I recently (2yeas ago) learned driving on a manual Volkswagen Polo. Now I’m planning to buy an automatic, but I still struggle on flyovers, especially in traffic when the car rolls back.

I’m considering getting a car with hill-hold assist.

Is this a common issue for beginners? How many of you faced this, and did hill assist make a difference?