28 F4F Can we chat like good friends ?

I had two realizations during a recent trip:

1- I am socially awkward
2-I really want friends

I will admit that coming out of that trip I was convinced that I needed to pursue an Autism diagnosis, alas my therapist assured me that I wish it was Autism but instead it is PTSD/ADHD/OCD looooool, If I ever make it in life and have to deliver a speech and thank any one person in my life and accredit them my life achievements it would be her.

I am coming here with no expectation, and I hope that lifts a heavy weight off of the shoulders of potential people sending me a DM, and optimistically not end up being ghosted.

I am determined to dig a hole in my bed ever since I got laid off work in June, and I have been very welcoming of the frequent naps that would hopefully make up for the restlessness of the 8 past years of employment in B2B.
I am an introvert who wants to be extroverted which feels like going against the current of overwhelm, overthinking, and existential dread…

I am told that I am funny, sometimes unintentionally. I would also describe myself as an optimistic pessimist who believes that we are all connected and share a sameness but that some of us are dipshit assholes.

I have a long list of books that I buy, want to read yet end up procrastinating on and getting immersed in endless daydreams, but I would say that it is one of my hobbies (Fav: The Grass Widow/ Dracula/On anarchy… )I love walking, and I am currently trying to dissociate and break my record of 50K steps in one day,
I like watching random youtube videos, movies, series, and anime(Fav: Fear and loathing in las Vegas/ One battle after another/ The Phoenician scheme…..) I enjoy animated films specially anything 2D drawn (Studio Ghibli).

I like talking about politics, I watch the news (sometimes religiously) I like being up to date with what’s happening in the world shout out to ground news, Channel 5, and independent journalists.

Bref ! Send me a random fact if you are interested in chatting

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u/alllclear — 3 days ago

F28 Traveling to Italy, Germany and The Netherlands and want to meet friends

I will be in Milan, Frankfurt,Berlin, then Amsterdam

and would love to meet chill people around the same age.

A bit about me before you decide if meeting is optimal:
I like gathering and knowing random facts
I like Reading
and walking 5000 miles an hour (joking)
I like crafting too from time to time.
I have recently acquired a bunch of plants that I am carefully mom-ing and plan on getting even more of, I am thinking herbs; basil, spearmint..
I enjoy cooking, however I can’t bake to save my life.
I watch sports sometimes, the odd soccer match, tennis game or occasional UFC card,
I also watch movies, series, anime, animated movies I don’t have any preferences and enjoy things I pick out as they come as my taste doesn’t depend on the cast, nor director. Some of the movies I enjoyed recently are; memories, The Phoenician scheme, 100 meter, the summit of gods.
I am a tomboy and usually attracted to Butches, Mascs but I am just looking for good company and my Dms are open

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u/alllclear — 3 months ago
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F28 Traveling to Italy, Germany and The Netherlands and want to meet friends

I will be in Milan, Frankfurt,Berlin, then Amsterdam

and would love to meet chill people around the same age.

A bit about me before you decide if meeting is optimal:
I like gathering and knowing random facts
I like Reading
and walking 5000 miles an hour (joking)
I like crafting too from time to time.
I have recently acquired a bunch of plants that I am carefully mom-ing and plan on getting even more of, I am thinking herbs; basil, spearmint..
I enjoy cooking, however I can’t bake to save my life.
I watch sports sometimes, the odd soccer match, tennis game or occasional UFC card,
I also watch movies, series, anime, animated movies I don’t have any preferences and enjoy things I pick out as they come as my taste doesn’t depend on the cast, nor director. Some of the movies I enjoyed recently are; memories, The Phoenician scheme, 100 meter, the summit of gods.
I am a tomboy and usually attracted to Butches, Mascs but I am just looking for good company and my Dms are open

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u/alllclear — 3 months ago

F28 Traveling to Italy, German, and The Netherlands and want to meet friends

I will be in Milan,Frankfurt,Berlin, then Amsterdam

and would love to meet chill people around the same age.

A bit about me before you decide if meeting is optimal:
I like gathering and knowing random facts
I like Reading
and walking 5000 miles an hour (joking)
I like crafting too from time to time.
I have recently acquired a bunch of plants that I am carefully mom-ing and plan on getting even more of, I am thinking herbs; basil, spearmint..
I enjoy cooking, however I can’t bake to save my life.
I watch sports sometimes, the odd soccer match, tennis game or occasional UFC card,
I also watch movies, series, anime, animated movies I don’t have any preferences and enjoy things I pick out as they come as my taste doesn’t depend on the cast, nor director. Some of the movies I enjoyed recently are; memories, The Phoenician scheme, 100 meter, the summit of gods.
I am a tomboy and usually attracted to Butches, Mascs but I am just looking for good company and my Dms are open

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u/alllclear — 3 months ago

F28 Traveling to Italy, German, and The Netherlands and want to meet friends

I will be in Milan from the 28th of May till the 3rd of June
Frankfurt from the 4the till the 6th
Berlin from the 6th till the 10th
Amsterdam from the 11th till the13th

and would love to meet chill people around the same age.

A bit about me before you decide if meeting is optimal:
I like gathering and knowing random facts
I like Reading
and walking 5000 miles an hour (joking)
I like crafting too from time to time.
I have recently acquired a bunch of plants that I am carefully mom-ing and plan on getting even more of, I am thinking herbs; basil, spearmint..
I enjoy cooking, however I can’t bake to save my life.
I watch sports sometimes, the odd soccer match, tennis game or occasional UFC card,
I also watch movies, series, anime, animated movies I don’t have any preferences and enjoy things I pick out as they come as my taste doesn’t depend on the cast, nor director. Some of the movies I enjoyed recently are; memories, The Phoenician scheme, 100 meter, the summit of gods.
I am a tomboy and usually attracted to Butches, Mascs but I am just looking for good company and my Dms are open

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u/alllclear — 3 months ago