20F searching

Hello Darlings,

I’m a 20F from Europe searching for my somebody. I’m mostly a masc, i have like a prince charming like mullet. I love traveling, photography, gym and philosophy. I like deep conversations, so if you’re a small talk person dont interact haha. I’m quite social and hyper sometimes but i can also be serious and romantic.

Generally about me: i’m pretty short, dark blonde hair, light eyes. I do like staying busy, doing activities or just go on walks. Also like playing all sorts of games. You can also make me happy with a good story or movie.

I find passion and good style very attractive honestly quite a must for me. I wanna be able to motivate each other for our dreams. Someone with ambition. Someone who would like going to the pub in the evening some weekends for a drink.
Anyways think thats it :)

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u/frequentwaves — 2 days ago

Slick back

Ello my gays,

I have this prince charming like mullet with a middle part, but when i dress a bit more fancy i wanna try slick back wet look. I tried it before but the product i use wasn’t great. I have incredibly thick hair, and its slightly wavy. What products would u guys recommend? Or any other tips? 🙏🙏

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u/frequentwaves — 3 days ago

Formal outfit

Hey my Gays,

I wear a lot of oversized stuff and some dresses as well but i have been discovering a new formal look for myself (btw i’m both very masculine and very feminine. I have a mullet and the other day I wore it slicked back and im sure it would look amazing with a nice suit. So i have been looking for some shirts, nice a white button ups for a tie and a website where i can buy a suit or something also with neat pants maybe even a belt. Would be amazing if you guys could help me out here! Any recommendations? Im also planning on buying some Buffalo aspen lace up low shoes.

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u/frequentwaves — 19 days ago

20F looking for someone

Ello! I’m reposting this to try my luck again and to specify that I do not want someone who lives on the other side of the world. Aside from that I’m a 20F from the netherlands. I’ve struggled with dating because lesbians are just hard to find and if I do find them they want hookups. I’m looking for something real. I love traveling but also just relaxing cozy at home watching music, playing guitar, photography especially analog film photography and being in nature and reading. I enjoy watching f1 on the weekends as well. I would really like someone to play games with, have intelligent conversations. Generally, i’m a huge nerd

More about me: i’m pretty short, and i’m both masc and femme, i’m mainly into femmes but i don’t mind soft masc either. Some days i dress masculine and some days i like to put on a dress with makeup. Travel is a big thing for me: id you don’t wanna travel, we won’t match.

I’m looking for someone who is caring since i’m caring myself, the most attractive thing to me is passion. I wanna be able to support each others dreams and motivate your ambitions and dreams.

I’d love to connect with some fellow lesbians on here for community!

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u/frequentwaves — 1 month ago
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Ashamed of myself

I am a 22f and i’m on a trip outside of my home country for a week. I’ve been going out a lot telling myself i liked it. The thing is i’ve always felt lonely when it came to relationships and it makes me insecure. Friendship are a similar story cuz i only have like 1 friend. Everyday i set myself aside for people and its horrible. The truth is, I’m desperate asf for a relationship and i know that its wrong. I just wanna be loved, have someone i can tell everything to, someone to cuddle with. I spend 2 nights in a row at a gay bar and both nights i made out with a girl. Not the same girl. Now after the club closed i took my cab to my hostel looking in the mirror again covered in hickeys. I’m so ashamed of myself, this is disgusting behavior of me. I only feel more empty after this. I just wanna be loved but why is it so hard, i know i should stop pleasing but that isnt gonna do anything for my friendships. Now i’m lying here feeling terrible my neck and shoulders covered in hickeys and i’m lost. My parents gonna find me disgusting. Thanks for reading

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u/frequentwaves — 1 month ago

20F looking for a partner or friend

Ello! I’m a 20F from the netherlands. I’ve struggled with dating because lesbians are just hard to find and if I do find them they want hookups. I’m looking for something real. I love traveling but also just relaxing cozy at home watching music, playing guitar, photography especially analog film photography and being in nature and reading. I enjoy watching f1 on the weekends as well. I would really like someone to play games with, have intelligent conversations. Generally, i’m a huge nerd

More about me: i’m pretty short, and i’m both masc and femme, i’m mainly into femmes but i don’t mind soft masc either. Some days i dress masculine and some days i like to put on a dress with makeup. Travel is a big thing for me: id you don’t wanna travel, we won’t match.

I’m looking for someone who is caring since i’m caring myself, the most attractive thing to me is passion. I wanna be able to support each others dreams and motivate your ambitions and dreams.

I’d love to connect with some fellow lesbians on here for community!

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u/frequentwaves — 2 months ago

20f softmasc from the Netherlands

Ello! I’m a 20F girl from the netherlands. I’ve struggled with dating because lesbians are just hard to find and if I do find them they want hookups. I’m looking for something real. I love traveling but also just relaxing cozy at home watching music, playing guitar, photography especially analog film photography and being in nature and reading. I enjoy watching f1 on the weekends as well. I would really like someone to play games with, have intelligent conversations. Generally, i’m a huge nerd

More about me: i’m pretty short, and i’m both masc and femme, i’m mainly into femmes myself. Some days i dress masculine and some days i like to put on a dress with makeup. Travel is a big thing for me: id you don’t wanna travel, we won’t match. I’d love to connect with some fellow lesbians on here for community!

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u/frequentwaves — 2 months ago

help with gaining comment karma

Hey guys, I really need some help with gaining attention, because i am commenting a lot but my comment karma isn't rising and it's really frustrating since i cannot post in a lot of communities. It would be great to get some tips!

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u/frequentwaves — 2 months ago

Driving on the opposite side of the road?

I was wondering people who move abroad to a country where they drive on the opposite side of the road then you’re used to where you’re from. How did you deal with it? Im planning on taking my car to the ireland but i’m kinda scared. I’m even more scared to rent a car that is manual. (I can drive manual but with the poke on the other side its scary.) how did you guys deal with it? Or was it easy to get used to?

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u/frequentwaves — 2 months ago

How do i choose what to study?

I’m in my early twenties, dropped out of college but i’m getting back into it next year but i still have no idea what to study. I have a lot of interests but none i can make a career out of. Careers that i have considered are impossible for me because of medication i use. I kind of feel lost with it, i have asked people for guidance with all sorts of tests but it never helps it turns to me overthinking or they are telling me to do a creative study that according to the tests fit me but in film school the pressure killed my creativity. I was thinking maybe someone on here has tips how they got to a path or atleast make a decision because i’m so scared i make the wrong decision since i have been doing that for 5 years. I’m even considering studying abroad for a year, a short course to see what i would like to study. Please anyone any tips? I’m stressing out

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u/frequentwaves — 2 months ago
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How do i find my path?

I’m in my early twenties, dropped out of college but i’m getting back into it next year but i still have no idea what to study. I have a lot of interests but none i can make a career out of. Careers that i have considered are impossible for me because of medication i use. I kind of feel lost with it, i have asked people for guidance with all sorts of tests but it never helps it turns to me overthinking or they are telling me to do a creative study that according to the tests fit me but in film school the pressure killed my creativity. I was thinking maybe someone on here has tips how they got to a path or atleast make a decision because i’m so scared i make the wrong decision since i have been doing that for 5 years. I’m even considering studying abroad for a year, a short course to see what i would like to study. Please anyone any tips? I’m stressing out

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u/frequentwaves — 2 months ago

Backpack hunt!

Hello lads,

Soon i’m doing my second solo trip to ireland, going for a week. I’m bringing a suitcase and a regular eastpak backpack, which i’ve used since high school so it’s on its last legs. But i have been delaying buying a new backpack. I want something that i can easily take on the plane as a backpack, something i can bring on hikes or just a day in the city. I’m pretty small so i dont want it to be too big (obviously also because airlines dont like big bags) so just a regular backpack that works good for those things, waterproof and i’d be happy to have a bottle holder on the side. Anyone any advice? I’d love to hear it. Ps. I’ve looked at decathlon but not sure if those are it.

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u/frequentwaves — 2 months ago