u/frequentwaves

Ello! I’m a 20F from the netherlands. I’ve struggled with dating because lesbians are just hard to find and if I do find them they want hookups. I’m looking for something real. I love traveling but also just relaxing cozy at home watching music, playing guitar, photography especially analog film photography and being in nature and reading. I enjoy watching f1 on the weekends as well. I would really like someone to play games with, have intelligent conversations. Generally, i’m a huge nerd

More about me: i’m pretty short, and i’m both masc and femme, i’m mainly into femmes but i don’t mind soft masc either. Some days i dress masculine and some days i like to put on a dress with makeup. Travel is a big thing for me: id you don’t wanna travel, we won’t match.

I’m looking for someone who is caring since i’m caring myself, the most attractive thing to me is passion. I wanna be able to support each others dreams and motivate your ambitions and dreams.

I’d love to connect with some fellow lesbians on here for community!

Ello! I’m a 20F girl from the netherlands. I’ve struggled with dating because lesbians are just hard to find and if I do find them they want hookups. I’m looking for something real. I love traveling but also just relaxing cozy at home watching music, playing guitar, photography especially analog film photography and being in nature and reading. I enjoy watching f1 on the weekends as well. I would really like someone to play games with, have intelligent conversations. Generally, i’m a huge nerd

More about me: i’m pretty short, and i’m both masc and femme, i’m mainly into femmes myself. Some days i dress masculine and some days i like to put on a dress with makeup. Travel is a big thing for me: id you don’t wanna travel, we won’t match. I’d love to connect with some fellow lesbians on here for community!

Hey guys, I really need some help with gaining attention, because i am commenting a lot but my comment karma isn't rising and it's really frustrating since i cannot post in a lot of communities. It would be great to get some tips!

I was wondering people who move abroad to a country where they drive on the opposite side of the road then you’re used to where you’re from. How did you deal with it? Im planning on taking my car to the ireland but i’m kinda scared. I’m even more scared to rent a car that is manual. (I can drive manual but with the poke on the other side its scary.) how did you guys deal with it? Or was it easy to get used to?

I’m in my early twenties, dropped out of college but i’m getting back into it next year but i still have no idea what to study. I have a lot of interests but none i can make a career out of. Careers that i have considered are impossible for me because of medication i use. I kind of feel lost with it, i have asked people for guidance with all sorts of tests but it never helps it turns to me overthinking or they are telling me to do a creative study that according to the tests fit me but in film school the pressure killed my creativity. I was thinking maybe someone on here has tips how they got to a path or atleast make a decision because i’m so scared i make the wrong decision since i have been doing that for 5 years. I’m even considering studying abroad for a year, a short course to see what i would like to study. Please anyone any tips? I’m stressing out

I’m in my early twenties, dropped out of college but i’m getting back into it next year but i still have no idea what to study. I have a lot of interests but none i can make a career out of. Careers that i have considered are impossible for me because of medication i use. I kind of feel lost with it, i have asked people for guidance with all sorts of tests but it never helps it turns to me overthinking or they are telling me to do a creative study that according to the tests fit me but in film school the pressure killed my creativity. I was thinking maybe someone on here has tips how they got to a path or atleast make a decision because i’m so scared i make the wrong decision since i have been doing that for 5 years. I’m even considering studying abroad for a year, a short course to see what i would like to study. Please anyone any tips? I’m stressing out

Hello lads,

Soon i’m doing my second solo trip to ireland, going for a week. I’m bringing a suitcase and a regular eastpak backpack, which i’ve used since high school so it’s on its last legs. But i have been delaying buying a new backpack. I want something that i can easily take on the plane as a backpack, something i can bring on hikes or just a day in the city. I’m pretty small so i dont want it to be too big (obviously also because airlines dont like big bags) so just a regular backpack that works good for those things, waterproof and i’d be happy to have a bottle holder on the side. Anyone any advice? I’d love to hear it. Ps. I’ve looked at decathlon but not sure if those are it.

Hey lads,

I was wondering what guitar pedals you guys would recommend for indie pop and indie rock. It can be distortion, reverb, compression or anything experimental. I was looking out for the Boss sy-1 synthesizer pedal which seems cool. I have tried out boss harmonizer and chorus but im not a fan. Anyone any other recommendations?

Ello lads,
Soon ill be traveling to ireland for pleasure but I also really wanna connect with other musicians. I’m 20f pop/rock songwriter. Inspirations of mine are Sam fender, queen, kingfishr and niall horan. I’ve been a guitarist for 8 years and have been writing songs for 2 years. I’m looking for people in either dublin or cork to connect or write with, whether you are a singer, drummer, bassist or violinist all is welcome. If not, maybe any tips on finding songwriters? I haven’t had any luck. My dms are open for it, if you’re interested dm me :)
Good day

I struggle daily with things in life that are unfair, how people get treated, how the world is divided. I’ve had my fair share of trauma and today was one of those. My friend completely back stabbing me also losing my other friend. I try to spread kindness everyday because i think this society sucks. And i ask her what i do wrong but she says i dont do anything wrong. I’ve had this so many times in my life i end up alone with no friends and i’m so sick of always ending up alone. I can’t look myself in the mirror cuz of it. Am i a bad person? Or am i too sensitive. I live daily trying to help people which made me a pleaser which is also not good. But i’m sick of being life’s punching bag and i don’t see the point of living if i can’t be happy for atleast a few weeks or have 1 genuine friend in my life. I feel like i’m too sensitive for this world i cry too easily, get hurt easily and i’m just so tired why can’t people be kind.