r/lesbianfashionadvice

low back wedding dress people, what did you actually wear underneath?

obsessed with how my formal dress looked, but undergarments were a total nightmare. It’s super low back, so my usual strapless bra was out. I spent the whole night stressing about straps or lines showing in pics.

have u tried puff? it keeps popping up on my feed bc of the front clasp and that cute flat storage board. looks way easier than dealing with tape, I really want to try it out haha💗

u/Ok-Pomelo5990 — 7 hours ago

How can I channel ‘black cat femme’ more

Ok to preface this isn’t a ‘how can I look more gay’ post, I already look gay bc I am gay lol

I was a masc lesbian for about a decade, I’ve been femme for a few years now. I much prefer being femme but still feel a little lost or like I’m wearing a costume! I think I have an ok fashion sense (gothic/twee/idk lots of puff sleeves and black), my hair is fun, but idk wtf I’m doing with makeup or piercings. Covered in tattoos so I have that down.

I want to have scary but approachable black cat energy and I don’t know how 😭😭 if any fellow black cat femmes have tips I would soooo appreciate it. Thank you!!!

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u/Iamtir3dtoday — 2 days ago

Butch summer ideas?

My wife is looking to branch out into more comfortable clothes and other styles that work for hot weather. I would love some suggestions on brands or looks you think might work, and to get her something as a surprise since she hates shopping. She's average/athletic build, tall, butch or soft butch, uncomfortable in anything feminine. Normal outfit is men's black skinny or bootcut jeans, black men's t-shirt, black combat boots or tennis shoes. She expressed interest in something like a tanktop with a loose long sleeve open shirt over (something flowy like linen but easier to care for). Loose drawstring pants similar material to the shirt. Pants need to have pockets. Her build fits men's clothing best. She also needs new comfortable tennis shoes or sandals and wants something masculine looking but not ugly.

Would love any ideas for brands, terms I can google, or pics of outfit inspo.

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u/BaylisAscaris — 2 days ago

Finally asked her out..

And now I’m obsessing about my outfit. We’re going to a queer day party!

TBH I might scrap the whole fit as per the weather next weekend. It’s been sweltering 🥵

u/MailroomMorty — 3 days ago

Trying to beat the heat

I’ve never been comfortable showing off my stomach before, but I’m living through one of the worst heat waves I’ve ever experienced. I’m kind of digging this hot girl vibe???? When did I get so cute?!?

u/MycologistSecure4898 — 3 days ago

Why do jeans fall like that?

And how do i stop it from happening? I mean these pictures are not me, theyre from the New yorker website😅

But seriously, i feel like every jeans looks like that on me. Is it my body, are my hips the problem?

I know these jeans are usually too long if course but even when i cut them, they still fall line that. Help me solve this mysterium please 🙏

u/RideRevolutionary738 — 3 days ago

Outfit of the day!!!

Monday- cold but I gotta get things done
Tuesday- playing in the garden☺️
Wednesday- plans ruined because it’s raining. And still. cold. 🙂
Thursday- picking raspberries in. The. Cold🙃
Friday- it’s a nice day so I’m picking raspberries again☺️
Saturday- farmers market🍎🥔🍉
Sunday- Crystal show🔮

Do you guys like the outfits of the week? So when put it all out in one go or do you prefer the more traditional outfit of the day postst?

u/Top_Introduction9794 — 2 days ago

Shopping in the boys’ children section for broke lesbians

Just robbed target by getting black dress pants for NINETEEN US DOLLARS. Obviously this hack is for limited body types - I’m 5’5” and not curvy below the boobs so a boys’ 16 works well and saves a fortune whether you’re shopping at the thrift store of buying new.

u/lj266243 — 3 days ago
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Where can I get a nice, but cheaper, suit without skimming out on quality?

Hello everybody!

I have my formal/prom coming up for school, and I am wanting to wear a really nice suit (so that I can take it into university and work).

I am absolutely in love with these pants and this suit, and am wanting something extremely similar. The problem is, it is FAR too expensive. Could anyone let me know where I can get something similar but at a lower price?

(Would be even better if it is a physical shop in SYD, Australia)

https://husbands-paris.com/en/products/wide-pleated-trousers-in-4-ply-cavalry-virgin-wool-dark-chocolate-herringbone

https://husbands-paris.com/en/products/single-breasted-suit-in-linen-black

Thank you very much! Looking forward to hearing from you all :)

u/Extension_Relief_748 — 3 days ago

How do I glow up

I think I look too straight or I’m just chopped and no one likes me lmfao. I need some brutally honest tips to glow up. Could be makeup, hair, clothes or surgery tips. I’m femme4femme

u/true-bluex — 4 days ago