r/lesbianfashionadvice

I need new locations to get cute insta pics. This city is so boring that I can't fully free the diva inside of me🙃

Got a weird judgy look from a woman at the self checkout today while at the same time I was buying cough medicine and the guy came over to scan his badge... so basically my neurotic, paranoid mind crammed the two situations together as if they were somehow related to each other.

Anyway, I asked if he needed to see my ID or something (sometimes they have to scan ID for alcohol and whatnot so idk) he said "nah you're good" and I turned around to grab my shit and this woman is s t a r i n g me down. She looked roughly my age, with her husband. Something about the way she looked made me think maybe she used to dress kinda alt but aged out of it. I myself have been feeling weird about the vans recently, specifically because I'm 34 but this is more or less how I've dressed my entire adult life. And tbh yeah I had converse and vans when I was in HS and middle school.

Anyway to wrap this nonsense up, AM I too old for vans, and also, WHY was the woman (with her husband) staring at me, and DID the young man at the checkout think I was pathetic for asking if he needed to see my ID? I like wearing these clothes but also get that people think this look is immature or... Something... Idk. Highlighted all the lines on my face so you could see how old I truly appear to others. Not pictured, stretchy neck skin I developed when I was about 32.

Found a denim jacket, but I’m worried it makes my shoulders look too wide, since it is men’s. Hopefully it reads as ‘sapphic cutie with oversized jacket’, because I really want to put a couple patches on it. Thanks!

I'm from Brazil and these are some of the clothes I wore during the fall/summer (lots of skirts and dresses). Now that winter is coming, I don't know how to dress and still look stylish (I only wear pants and a coat because I can't stand being cold). Any tips to feel beautiful and stylish in winter?

Been awhile since I’ve wanted to wear anything but pants so I’m kind of out of practice styling things with dresses. Does this go okay? Should I add a necklace?

(Pics are my style rn)

I’ve always been a more feminine girl and I love that style but it feels sort of like I’m never feminine enough for myself if that makes sense? So I’ve been thinking of trying out the opposite of what i usually go for. I tried it out a few years ago and I felt super confident. Mascs always look so good and i genuinely love that style. For those who have this type of style, what kinda fits have u put together and where do u shop? :3

I at least have a few outfits I really like but the lack of pieces in my wardrobe that are both comfortable and fit my overall style is endlessly frustrating. It's going to take ages for me to have more than a handful of tops and a single pair of pants that I like.