u/spider_night7

I need friends to go with I’ve been wanting to go for a while now I’m 24 btw

So I met this girl on an app and we are both in our 20’s and been texting for about a week. For context I asked her on a date a few days ago and she got kind of overwhelmed and wanted to take it slower and she also gets uncomfortable when someone comes into strong too fast or when someone newer gives appearance based compliments so I kept that in mind. Below is the conversation

Her: “From what I was feeling last night I realized I started wondering if we have different communication styles. I'm someone who's naturally really affectionate and flirty when I'm interested in someone and I realized I was missing that a little. I don't think you're doing anything wrong at all l just wanted to be honest about how I was feeling.”

Me: “Thank you for expressing that to me I appreciate you being honest. I'm sorry if I didn't come across the way you needed. I was honestly just trying to take things slow because I didn't want to come on too strong or make you uncomfortable. I am interested in you and enjoy talking to you I think l've just been trying to feel out the vibe and respect your pace too.”

Her: “thank u, I really appreciate you hearing me out. I think I'm just used to people being a little more openly affectionate when they're interested so I think the slower pace made me unsure. I'm glad we talked about it though”

After that the conversation went normal and I stated to flirt I don’t know if I’m overthinking things or not just rubbed me wrong