u/paranoid_gynoid_

My emetophobia was severe for years, but has recently started to improve. My younger brother is vomiting today, and I feel strangely calm. I do have a question, though. Is it okay to take steps to avoid catching a virus, or are all avoidant behaviors bad for recovery? For example, limiting contact with him while he’s sick, washing my hands often, and possibly wearing a mask. I know that people without emetophobia also do those things, I think they’re fairly “normal.” But I don’t want to jeopardize where I’m at in the recovery process by engaging in unhealthy behaviors.

So, can I take basic steps to avoid getting sick or should I just act like nothing is happening?

I’m nonbinary, so I never know what “passing” would look like for me. I’m hoping to better understand binary trans folks. This makes me wonder- what does passing mean to you? Is it to be perceived as cisgender, or is it for people to recognize that you’re trans/recognize which gender you’re presenting as without necessarily thinking you’re cis)?

I apologize if any of this is insensitive or poorly worded. I don’t really understand gender very well (autistic + nonbinary combo), and I have a hard time imagining the binary trans experience. Any other insights are appreciated!