u/pastelmermaidxo

Hi guys, sorry for the long paragraph. I just need to know what the actual flip is going on. How do people actually make real friends in South Africa? 😭

Like fr, I’ve tried Bumble BFF, friendship apps, Instagram, TikTok, joining group chats… literally everything people always suggest. But somehow it always ends the same — people text for like 3 days, then vanish, ghost, or the whole vibe just dies.

Where are the genuine people who actually want real friendships?? Like proper friends. outing nights, random drives, shopping, late-night deep talks, sending each other nonsense all day… actual friendship, not temporary chatting.

It feels like everyone says they want friends, but nobody actually puts in effort to keep one.

At this point I’m convinced everyone in South Africa already has their friend group and the rest of us are just fighting for survival 😭

Please tell me I’m not the only one.

hi everyone I just want to know has anyone experienced some weird unexplained things in the JHB south areas apartments and specifically where? I've been experiencing something but can't put my finger on what it is. I'm talking about consistent screams at specific times. Weird movements etc.

Hiii everyone 🫶 hope you’re all good xx

I’m lowkey frustrated 😭 I’m a bisexual girl (21) and I’ve been trying sooo hard to get into the dating scene with women especially older women or honestly just women in general but I genuinely cannot find them anywhere.

I’ve tried pretty much every WLW app, friendship app, LGBTQ+ app… and still, absolutely no luck 💀

Even when I go out, it’s so hard to tell if someone’s into women, and I feel like just walking up to someone would be kinda weird and awkward lol.

Does anyone know where people actually meet other women? Because at this point I’m convinced they’re all in hiding 😭

Hi everyone! F(21) here. Looking for a girl to join me to see the Billie Eillish movie. Also looking to make some queer friends. I am a lesbian.

Hi everyone, I f(21)really need queer friends anyone interested please reach out.