My ex blocked me after I called them out on their covert narcissism
My ex discarded me a month ago after avoiding me for three days. Then they left my apartment before we could even have a full conversation about it.
Last week I saw them at the bar I frequent and decided to confront them. During that conversation I asked them if they'd heard of vulnerable/covert narcissism, and suggested they look into it because they have a lot of (all) the traits.
Two days later I texted them asking if they'd be at that same bar that night, because I didn't want to run into them again, and they blocked me.
I was spiralling about this until my therapist said that narcissists are extremely fragile and will cut off anyone who poses a threat to their image or delusion. I guess I'll never know if this is really true, but telling myself they blocked me because I finally saw them for what they really are and called them on it is the only thing that has made me feel better since the discard.
Has anyone else experienced being completely cut off after naming and shaming a narcissist?