Which US city is being gay most normalized?
Not gay friendly in the sense that there’s a popular gay district and gay neighborhoods. (Though it can)
Not gay friendly in the sense that there’s huge pride parades. (Though it’s fine)
Gay friendly in the sense that being gay is just a normal way to be, it doesn’t stand out, you won’t be asked about your sexuality but instead you just exist as a normal part of the variation.
Which city in the US can I move to where as a gay person I won’t be segregated off socially and instead gay people just exist in community with everyone else.
For example I currently live in Chicago and while it’s not overtly hostile towards gays I definitely feel socially stratified, considered “different” and people will constantly reference boystown when they find out im gay.
I want to live somewhere I can just be without feeling othered.