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TSA damaged my designer handbag in a random inspection

I'm moving to another state, and after a grueling 4 days of packing and moving, we flew to our destination this morning (AUS -> SJC).

I took extra care and careful planning to pack all of my valuables and important personal items in such a way where they would be as safe as possible on the short flight. More specifically, and most relevant to this post, I ensured that there would be NO liquids in the luggage containing my designer handbags.

I checked my bags at the airport front desk, successfully arrived at my destination, and upon opening the luggage containing my handbags, I found a note which informed me that my luggage had been selected for a "random" inspection. Immediately I got nervous as many of my expensive personal items were in this suitcase, and that's when I discovered a stain on the protective cloth bag of my favorite handbag.

Both the handbag and its protective cloth are stained, and some of the ink from the suede dye had soaked into the protective cover. The liquid was not water because it made the cloth stiff where it dried up, but I can't tell what the liquid is by smell.

For those who are curious, this is the handbag which was damaged:
https://www.balenciaga.com/en-us/rodeo-handbag-mini-
black-8437122ACKO1000.html
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My partner purchased this handbag for me as a gift and it's my favorite bag- it was no small purchase for us either. I only own 3 purses in total and this was by far the most expensive. I want to cry. I already submitted a complaint (email) to TSA but I wanted to post here because I doubt TSA will do anything about it or pay for a new bag because I just don't have the proof that TSA were the ones who damaged it. No one else touched my luggage (it was locked) between me packing the luggage and then unpacking it upon arrival other than TSA. I never check luggage with valuable or beloved items because I don't trust that they will be handled properly, and of course the one time I do check a bag, my items get damaged.

To any Austin Bergstrom TSA agents reading this post, if you know any coworkers who would intentionally choose to damage a designer handbag, perhaps out of spite (????but why??? Edit because people are getting really attached to the word "spite" so I'm regretting even adding this note to the post---And yes I too doubt that it was out of spite, but I know Balenciaga is a controversial brand in general, so there's not a 0% chance that someone did it out of hate), please please reach out to me. I'm not rich but maybe a spiteful TSA agent thought I was given that all of my most expensive valuables were in this luggage.

u/pearllypie3 — 20 hours ago
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TIFU by failing to explain what guest slippers are

So I recently decided to purchase several pairs of slippers to let guests borrow when they visit my home so that they don't have to walk around with bare feet/socks. Growing up with a Chinese mother, it was super common for her friends and family to offer us slippers anytime we visited their homes, as in the culture it's common courtesy to never wear your shoes indoors.

I enforce the no-shoes rule very strongly in my home as I hate the idea of having outside dirt and germs spread all over my floors/carpet. So I bought a bunch of slippers to elevate the experience of guests in my home and make them feel more welcome and comfortable. I also did this because my partner's mom visited our home recently, and she absolutely refused to not wear shoes- with the rationale that it causes arthritis or something. Whatever makes her comfortable....but I was quite annoyed every time I saw her wearing her outdoor shoes in my kitchen. Hence, guest slippers were purchased.

Anyway, more recently we had a friend stop by for a few hours. Upon his arrival, my partner brought out a pair of slippers and offered them to our guest, saying something along the lines of "here these are for you to wear" as he was removing his shoes. Our guest said "oh, for me?" and my partner replied something like "yes, these are for wearing around in our home." Our guest thanked him and said he would leave them by the door. Which should have been our first hint.

Anyway, our guest stayed for a while and then eventually had to leave. Upon leaving he saw the slippers by the door and said to me "oh yeah, [my partner] said I could have these, right?" to which I replied "well, they are actually meant for guests to wear inside." And our guest said "yeah yeah, I really appreciate this, it's a sweet gift."

So I tried to re-explain it to him, saying "no no, these are meant to stay here" *while pointing at the ground in my home*. "We bought these slippers for guests to wear inside, here." My guest replied "Well yeah, I'm not going to wear them out running or anything like that, so thank you it's a really thoughtful gift! They are quite comfy." And so for the last time I tried to explain, saying something like "No but these are for our guests to wear inside, they are meant to stay here." But once again my guest seemed exasperated about how concerned I was about him wearing them outdoors and said "yeah yeah, don't worry I know how to decide which shoes to wear" or something along those lines, and he once again thanked me for the "thoughtful gift" and he reached out for a hug to say goodbye.

At this point I just gave up and said "you're welcome" and let him have the slippers. They were like $20 anyway. Lesson learned- not everyone grew up in slipper culture and it's harder to explain than I originally thought it would be.

TL;DR I purchased slippers for guests to have something to wear (that aren't their outdoor shoes) in my home, but a guest misunderstood my explanation 3 times and took them home as a supposed gift.

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u/pearllypie3 — 17 days ago

Passionflower Vine Takeover!

I just saw another post about passionflower vines, and thought I'd share the chaos that is my yard currently.

Lawn mowers are coming tomorrow so all the ground vines are going to be destroyed, but they will literally all pop back up within a couple of weeks. My (outdoor supervised) cats love hiding and play hunting in between the vines!

Please don't judge my tiny sad tomato & squash planter box; I started too late this year :(

u/pearllypie3 — 1 month ago