Cruising in gym showers
I don’t go to the gym that frequently, but almost every time I do someone tries to feel me up or solicit something in the shower
This week I went twice … rare for me … and both times someone approached by trying to get in the same shower as me or stood in the shower opposite me to masturbate. Things like this have happened before, but this was just this week on two different days at two different times … it’s a college gym so it skews younger, but is in a somewhat small city (Dublin, IE)
It can’t just be me..? I guess I look gay (bleach blond hair, twink build) but I’m not an Adonis, so I think that appearing gay is taken as an open invitation. Each time except once it was not welcomed… I am not traumatised by this and always politely decline but am just finding it really strange
It also makes me think that the general population is much gayer than it seems, or when they are horned up from working out are more flexible because it is usually straight appearing men?
Does anyone else experience this..? Is this a thing you do?