r/rsforgays

Saw one today

I look around a business class airport lounge and there are so many walruses. Why, when Ozempic buys you normality? These guys can easily afford it.

I don’t go to the gym that frequently, but almost every time I do someone tries to feel me up or solicit something in the shower

This week I went twice … rare for me … and both times someone approached by trying to get in the same shower as me or stood in the shower opposite me to masturbate. Things like this have happened before, but this was just this week on two different days at two different times … it’s a college gym so it skews younger, but is in a somewhat small city (Dublin, IE)

It can’t just be me..? I guess I look gay (bleach blond hair, twink build) but I’m not an Adonis, so I think that appearing gay is taken as an open invitation. Each time except once it was not welcomed… I am not traumatised by this and always politely decline but am just finding it really strange

It also makes me think that the general population is much gayer than it seems, or when they are horned up from working out are more flexible because it is usually straight appearing men?

Does anyone else experience this..? Is this a thing you do?

Andrew Scott has a new movie coming out about him playing Ian Charleson, who was secretly dying from AIDS while he played Hamlet at the biggest theatre in England. It looks really good and I hope it is good

However I can't help but notice the need for stock female characters being pushed. All over the press tour are the two actresses and Andrew Scott is hardly getting a word in

I remember it was the same with It's A Sin, they made a big deal about having an 'all gay cast' then heavily pushed the 2 actresses instead of the 5 men, and all anyone could talk about after was those women rather than the gay stories. I lowkey think its crazy how every AIDS story has to focus on the mother or the nurse, it's like a gay man's own life and struggle isn't enough unless there's a woman crying for him. Makes u think

Not judging or kink shaming, just sharing my thoughts

I admittedly have next to zero experience being in a relationship as I’ve never had a boyfriend yet. However, when I like a guy/am dating a guy, I go completely googoo gaga heart eyes for him.

I want to hold him and protect him, be gentle with him and show him affection and warmth. The last thing I would ever want to do is cause him pain, either emotional but especially physical pain. The concept is just so foreign to me.

I fail to comprehend how someone in a loving relationship could compartmentalize to the point of hitting/whipping/flogging/whatever and then go about their day as if they didn’t just exchange physical trauma with their loved one.

Curious to hear your thoughts though and I’m open to being wrong

These people look CRAZY

Not gonna link it but this guy reached out to me a while ago asking if I wanted to apply. Curious about people's experiences with it.