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Do other gay men ever feel like finding genuine love is much harder?
Sometimes I wonder why it feels so difficult for gay men to find genuine love compared to straight couples. It often seems like many people are only interested in hookups or something casual, while some of us are looking for a real connection, companionship, and a long-term relationship.
As a bottom, I sometimes feel like I'm only seen as someone to have fun with rather than someone to build a life with. It makes me wonder—do top guys feel the same way? Are they also searching for love and commitment, or is this just my experience?
I'd really like to hear your thoughts and personal experiences. Have you found meaningful love, or do you also feel that dating in the gay community can be discouraging?
u/PleasantPositive7941 — 22 hours ago