u/pheeeel

Have I messed up by pausing my profile for 2 weeks too early?

I put a lot of effort into the profile before I made it active. Good photos, prompts, all that. I also signed up for Hinge X right away.

When I first turned it on, I started getting likes pretty fast. Within the first few days I had around 50 likes sitting there.

Then I went on a couple dates with someone, things moved really fast, and we decided to try being exclusive pretty early. So I paused my profile.

That ended after about 2 weeks and now the app feels completely different. I’ve gone through most of the likes I had built up, a few turned into dates, but now I barely get likes unless I’m actively using the app and liking profiles myself.

All of my matches now seem to come from women I liked first, not from women liking me organically like before.

I’m also starting to get the “Check Back Later” message a lot, which seems weird because I’m in a Canadian metro area of around 1.5–2 million people. I wouldn’t think I’d be running out of profiles that quickly.

is this is just the normal drop-off after the new-user boost or is hinge is trying to push me toward boosts?

Should I look at restarting/resetting my profile or would that just be a waste of time?

I also have a trip coming up where I won’t have normal access to my personal phone for about 12 days, so I’m wondering if that inactivity will make things even worse or if it doesn’t really matter..

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u/pheeeel — 2 days ago