u/phoenix_sonne

So it took us 5 years to conceive our daughter (10 months) via ICSI. We have 4 embryos left and I really want a second child. For my husband it's a firm no. He wants his freedom as he has now and is already tired and worked up even though Im the one on maternity leave. I feel so bad for my daughter as she won't have any other relatives. No nieces, nephews etc. I'm 40 and dont have my parents anymore so I know the feeling of being by myself. I don't want that for her. I don't want a quiet childhood for her. Also I'm so conflicted to discard the embryos for my personal believe. I don't know where to go from here besides just accepting the situation trough therapy.