I don’t want to come off as a “bridezilla”
I’m getting married in a couple weeks and two of my bridesmaids bought matching shoes with each other which is fine however our colors are purple and they bought shoes that have red and green in them….it looks like shoes you would wear to a corporate Christmas party.
I tried to politely say it’s not on theme it doesn’t match but they just say “it looks great together”.
There is nothing in my wedding with those colors and their dresses aren’t floor length their mid.
I’ve been letting everyone steam roll over me because I don’t want to come across a certain way because you can lose friends/family during this process. But I really hate their shoes for my wedding.
It seems like no matter what I say they will find a reason why they should wear the shoes. They won’t match the other people in my party either, everyone else is wearing nude open toed heels. These are pointed closed toed shoes with embroidered green and red starbursts with a giant bow on the back.
What can I even do?
EDIT:
I told them any style lavender/lilac dress just nude shoes
I have 5 people in my party including MOH, only one is in satin she chose it everyone else in chiffon or a ruffle style dress
The shoes aren’t also stilettos, everyone else is wearing a heel block because we will be on grass
I’m sure it will look nice in the end but I just feel like my “requests” were completely ignored and they are dead set on wearing them so I’ll just let it happen.