I hate my “stepdads” guts and I can’t stand him.
My (22m) and my “stepdad” (40m) have lived together now for a long time, my mum got with him when I was around 8 and they dated for a while until he eventually moved in, for a year or so we had a good relationship and used to play on Wii together all the time, until one day we had an argument over if he can tell me what to do or not and from that point on I hated seeing his face it made my stomach turn. (to add I also know my bio dad and have a brilliant relationship with him, he’s one of my best pals these days but he lives well out of town I’d have to change my entire life to move in with him) after that I always had an attitude with him because I just have this distaste for him, it did not get better as I grew up and it always started by me and my mum having a slight argument and he comes to her defence and mum uses the excuse that his dad and brother fought a lot when he was younger so he gets triggered, I call complete bullshit because how can a grown man get that triggered he has a fight with a 14 year old lad. Since being an adult I started training mma at 18 as he told me once “if you were ten years older I’d knock you out” and inevitably last year we had a fight that ended with me almost choking him out. Has anyone else had shit like this with their so called stepdads? I never went to child protective services because I knew I could hold my own against him.