u/pigeon-lord-master

Hey friends!

I'm new in Vienna and I had a quick question to ask everyone. I am a tutor on the side and I am currently looking for some extra students. I want to put up my tutor flyer in libraries and grocery stores but I don't know if I am allowed to do that. In my old town i knew all the store owner of our small shop so it didn't matter but Vienna is a huge city and i have heard horror stories of people getting small tickets for really minor issues so i want to proceed in the right way.

Does anyone know any information? It would help a tonnn

Thanks!

Hey friends! I (24f) and my ex (25m) have been officially over for almost two months. I would say that I am handling it pretty good for the circumstances that have come from it. But i really really need some advice.

Since the break up I've had to move cities and in a VERY short amount of time i've gotten all my ducks in a row and I am set to take my final exams in september and graduate from my degree. Honestly everyone was suprised I was able to pull it off, even more myself cause i am a very fake optimist. during that month I was really in the trenches, going through it while trying to deal with uni and life stuff.

Well here is where i would love some advice. I think i've handled the break up well. I can go lots of days with thinking of my ex but not being sad that it's over. but this week has been really hard and a complete change. I keep getting hit with these really painful memories and then i try to hold space for them, to feel everything so i can heal but then the feelings start to take over everything. So i stop feeling them and then i try to ignore it and continue but then they creep up again.

I would really love some advice on handle this part of the break up. I really don't want to keep thinking about him because it then makes me want to reach out to him. We weren't great for eachother but my heart keeps trying to convince me that we could have made it work if he put more effort (which i know he won't do). so any advice on how to get through this step would be helpful!!!

Hey friends, I just left my old apartment, the one I shared with my boyfriend (25M). We lived together almost one year whether in this place or his old place. He hurt me in ways that cannot be excused and I stayed cause I wanted to build a future with him, hoping he'd heal with me.

Well be broke up with me and now while hes been on a work trip/holiday ive packed my stuff and left. I left the keys and he will return to an empty place.

Yall I dont know what to do. My head says this was the right choice. My girls also agree with my head and all my friends donr like him but my heart is crying.

Im moving with my bestie until I decide what to do but to be honest I dont know what to do. With my ex we made all these plans for the future and now it feels like he took them away and I donr know how to make new ones.

Hey friends,

I (24f) and my ex (25 M) broke up last week. well better said he broke up with me, and like for many people, it came out of nowhere. at least I felt like it came out of nowhere. he said he wasn't feeling anything anymore, that i wasn't his home and that he dreaded coming home to me. A little bit of background: I am an international student finishing my degree in biochemistry, and he works full-time as an aviation engineer. Because of an internship opportunity we moved in together so we've been living together almost a year of the year and a half of being officially together (we knew for total two and a half years).
We made this HUGE plans that we were gonna travel to another country and try living there. I compromised for everything and i tried to tell myself that he was treating me badly due to his work stress.

then he breaks up with me telling me he can't see a future with me. I then had to move out and now i'm jobless, homeless, and so close to graduating and yet it seems impossible. Thankfully I have amazing friends so i am moving in with one until i graduate and then i guess figure out my plan.

So i'm asking for advice on how to pick up the pieces of my life. I feel like all my plans are shattered cause they all involved him.

Hey yall this is probably a familiar tune but just two days ago my boyfriend now ex broke up with me. Yall im devastated. He did it at one of the lowest points in my life and I am so exhausted and hurt and scared. Im an international student with a visa about to expire and I need his help and on top of that the apartment we've shared since Feburary is in his name so I need to move out. This my fourth time being misplaced, im so distraught cause I dont have a home to go to. He was it, but apperenrly I was not his.

I need some advice. I graduate in three months and then I Dont know where to go. I've found a temporary living space in the Capitol city of the country I am in but after September my visa expires and I dont know whether I should try and find a way to stay or not. A huge part of me wants to go home cause I miss my family but I also feel like it woukd be taking steps back. The other part of me thinks that maybe I shoukd take a massive leap of faith (again) and move by myself to Australia and start from 0. I have found a remote job that pays decent so if im not too picky I think it coukd work. But im so scared, and sad.

I dont know what to do or how even to move on. Any advice on anything woukd be lovely.