u/pinkpizzainsky

Its getting boring i wanna learn something good and socialise.

I dated someone for 2 years

I didn’t know he-was not graduated and dropped out of college and had a big ass loan on him. And showed me he is so capable and shit. He made me insecure. Demeaned me. Disrespected me. I got trauma bonded.

And the most shocking thing is I am a doctor.

And still this all happened to me.

He used to talk big about gender roles like men provide and women love and care and bla bla bla

Still made me spend on dates saying i dont have i will make big money someday.

He told me i was ugly he could do better and stuff and i started questioning myself.

And it was never this way i have been told i look good.

He wanted to date multiple women and wanted me to be just his one on main chicks and wanted side chicks ( lang he used )

i fought and then we were in monogamous thing Atleast according to me

The he went on cheating on me 10 fucking times and manipulated me to still stay. Few weeks ago i finally left his maze puzzle he put me in.

I met him on hinge 2 years ago.

I am glad and so are my friends and family are so happy for me now tha i have left him finally.

Ps telling this specially to girls to stay aware of such abusive men.