Taking a break from dating due to the emotional energy it requires but I’m really curious if some of you choose the hookup route as away to not be completely single and find some enjoyment!
Is that even a good option? Thoughts?
I had to repost. I took the last post down because some Fake trans woman troll tried to gaslight me into making what I am trying to say is too much and started spamming.
Anyways so lately I have been seeing a trend where a man who’s “ interested “ in seeing a trans woman is just offering his interest with Nothing else. No Efforts to take you out for a dinner / or a fun date or impress you at all. Expecting you to just show up looking your best and ready for cater to him.
( I know there are some desperate trans women out there with low self esteem and awareness making this possible)
Other than that What makes a man think this is the right way to treat a trans woman? Do they think just because we are trans all standards are out the window ? Because I know that’s not right and a lot of us are not that desperate.
If a man does this type of behavior ( Breadcrumbing) from the start just please know he doesn’t like you or GAF about you. He’s just looking to satisfy his curiosity and fetish. They will take you on a ride of lies and deception.
What are some of the standards do you have when seeing someone new? what are some of your expectations?
This could be so helpful to so many of us to weed out the bad actors with malicious intentions.
The guy who’s “ interested “ in you expecting you to do all the work. Host and cater to him for nothing ? And act surprised when you ask for help or a favor ?
No chocolate no flowers no dine and wine?
Guess what if he’s not doing these things for you he doesn’t Like or GAF about You!!
I’m tired of the narrative that because you are trans your standards are low and out the window.
What are some good / acceptable dating sites or apps for us straight trans women ? I am looking to be treated with respect and care. I have standards. I find some apps dehumanizing to say the least.
Without sounding like having an exaggerated sense of self or being Arrogant.
How do you seriously deal with this situation?