u/pisscuntshitfap

im tired of hearing from ppl who dont have to be the only cis person in the room for most days of their life and dont have unsupportive parents. i feel so alone and out of place even in trans only groups. i dont see the point of "seeking help", when its just monitoring and gossip fuel not help. i cant even talk about the rest. all this "help" costs money and i need to save some to get rid of this nightmare (surgery). working as a trans person feels like a humiliation ritual theres no magical easy "queer friendly" job thatdoesnr risk me running out of money then moving back home cuz i cant get a job within a few months. i am so done soon.

would they see if i had tampons in?? im honestly stressing so much. they have to click the "woman" option anyways when the male one doesnt work or flags stuff which is humiliating enough.

hey all just wondering if anyone has suggestions of shops since im needing a set of dress shirts and chinos before next week. i went to some places like country road etc. and even xs is too large for me. i can't wear female fits because my shoulders are too large and i get dysphoric. i've been to a few op shops but most of the business items are way too big for me. i don't even know if getting xs then tailoring it worth it because even the arm holes are too big. and getting pants that don't make it clear i have a butt and hips have been getting to me. the shop staff seem to read me as female (i haven't beeb too long on T) but not old/classy enough to be buying for the hypothetical husband so theyve also been avoiding me and giving weird looks as well and tbh i've been stressing bc nothing fits right. idek what to do for shoes.

i've out myself in a position where i'm out at work too so i feel like i look like a total idiot compared to any other dude. i've seen small dudes around look sharp but atm i don't have time for a tailor and need to find one i trust not to make it a fem fit.

any suggestions around melb that aren't too pricey would be appreciated, thank you.