u/pixiedustking329

Everytime I open reddit there is a 50/50% chance I am going to encounter this type of dynamic whether it be on AITA, boydinnerdiaries, relationship advice, sillyboyclub-etc. It always starts with a guy begging to be romantically involved by a mentally ill girl (his personal manic pixie dream girl) and it gets to a point. Like no dude, you're just Jim-bob and she's Extra terrestrial super nova. I seriously wish non personality disorder, whimsy sucking, cis men (primarily) because women do this too, could stop preying on people that experience limerence, are clearly autistic or in some way hit the marks of what we identify as yanderes. This behavior is not cutesy, or a personality quirk, it is rooted in trauma, mental illness and they won't care until these archetypes they lust for act out of the fantasy their mind and r*pe culture perpetuates. This is the start to the movie Obsession and I have seen it play out in many relationships including my own.

DISCLAIMER BEFORE I POST. Rule 12, is to not discuss toxic relationship dynamics. I am in no way talking about relationship dynamics, but the societal factors and jargon that lead up to them from a yandere's standpoint.