u/pleaasantthings

did anyone feel nani was responsible somewhere in encouraging Anjali's manipulative side, along with other elders like mami mama? Here's what I feel:

1. She never corrected anjali when she was rude and troublesome. forget the remarriage part but do you remember how conveniently she ran from house to mandir when arnav didn't listen her wish and later says that 'hmare to saare kaam bn jate h aise'

2. many will disagree here, but nani judged lavanya for clothes length but she never judged anjali for her overly transparent sarees? this doesn't add up cos then she shouldn't judge lavanya also.

3. she held khushi responsible for anjali and said stay away from her, when she was not the reason. the only time khushi needed her support in whatever happened.

4. nani was the elder how she blind eyed everything, the younger ppl followed along. this only fuelled Anjali's overly dependent and controlling behaviour.

side question - anjali was living in maika from 3 years of marriage (to which neither nani nor dadi objected, considering they both are very strict about morals and principles but for anjali big no) so after shyam was ousted why didn't she chose to leave the house and live with him instead of going behind everyone's back and lying conveniently? was she greedy for arnav financing her and her kid and hubby now?