u/plutoniumreal

Ever since I was a kid I have always enjoyed girly fashion more than boy fashion (not that I could express it until I had my own money) and when I saw the growing femboy community, I was hooked. but in my years scrolling through many femboy communities, I realized that most of them pertain to blatant sexualization and, to 99% of people outside these communities, this community is seen as just objects for "gratification", and a good handful of femboys (mostly OF creators) seem to reciprocate. I don't feel like I can use the label without interlacing myself with this big generalization. I've even considered throwing all my stuff away because I've seen and had to be in so many conversations and spaces that see it as okay to make the femboy community into just mere objects without feelings, a porn category. I can't feel happy being feminine, or expressing myself, or wear my fem clothes anymore without a judging, visceral thought in the back of my head that im doing something wrong and should stop. I just wish I could express myself and be happy and feel cute without the predatory scene of the modern femboy lurking deep within the minds of everyone who goes about these communities.

But for now, I will return back to being masculine, atleast until I can cut the jarring association of the disgusting connotations people have of this community out of my conscious.

I have picked up ToGF, and here is my progress within 2 days of playing:

Day 1: 2.5 hrs, 6x5, 5x1 fails

Day 2: 2.25 hours, 8(late)x1, 6x9, 5x3

I think I can finally reach catastrophic difficulty soon...

ever since I beat toam on October 21st, I have never been able to actively grind something for more than a couple hours. I seriously am requesting help to get out of this mindblock, as it drives me crazy seeing everybody else in my friend group progress easily while I have had the same hardest for almost a year. any advice is appreciated.

ever since I beat toam on October 21st, I have never been able to actively grind something for more than a couple hours. I seriously am requesting help to get out of this mindblock, as it drives me crazy seeing everybody else in my friend group progress easily while I have had the same hardest for almost a year. any advice is appreciated.