normalization of slurs...
why are girls so comfortable calling each other b*tch? it is seriously a derogatory slur used for women. somehow it is so normalised among women themselves, you can't even question men on it. Indian men are whole different breed when it comes to using slurs.😭🙏
men call their girlfriends b*tch and it suprises me that women have no problem being referred as a dog by man who is supposed to like them
i just find the word very insulting tbh. even if the word is used jokingly/ unseriously , it is still a sexist slur. but i dont expect much from society like ours where men use _n and r slur_ so often like it's daily routine and think it's funny, when they're just racist. men often defend using slurs as 'humor that women dont understand' like they aren't racist, misogynist, ableist.
few days ago, i saw a post on Twitter where a girl posted a screenshot of her and bfs chat where she shared a photo of herself with her bf. and her bfs first reaction was the word "bhench0d".other men in the comments were defending the bf, that his reaction was 'normal' and that women were '_overreacting_' for calling him red flag.
it baffles me how the first word in your head after seeing your gf is 'bhenchod' and somehow men think that's okay. 🤡 the gf herself wasn't questioning her bf because men in the comments told her how it's 'normal' like be so fr, _some_ girls have zero standards and have the bar set really low . its so embarrasing sometimes that women settle for such men.😿