u/polycuri

I am new to enm/poly and am curious about how experienced people decide who to date and who to not in order to minimize drama and conflicts within your inner circle and for your own sake. I mean, do you even take in consideration how others will feel before deciding whether or not you will date someone? And what are the other red flags for you?

I hope I’ve explained this well since English isn’t my first language, sorry in advance x)