I am not a CNA, but was asked by my Mom's CNA to remove her pubic hair. They're not allowed to do it at her home, but the CNA feels it would be cleaner if I removed it.
But... How? Are there certain shavers that are better for this? I'll ask mom's consent first of course, but if she says yes... How does it work? Do you have any tips as a group of people who have likely had to do this before?
TIA
My Mom lives in a long term care set up, and will most likely be there for several years. The CNAs there work so insanely hard to keep everyone happy and doing well. How do Mom and I let them know they're appreciated?
What about when Christmas rolls around? Is a gift basket with snacks, liquid IV, pens, etc tacky? What would you actually want?
We will 100% write a heartfelt card. What should go with it?
We unfortunately need to look for a new care situation for my mom, who currently lives with me and my family. A local program may have a place for her, and I'm wondering how I might move her with the best outcomes.
Basically, her day program rents out a (locked) floor of an apartment building. The residents live in their own apartments, and attend the day canter next door. In the veneings and on weekends, someone visits frequently to help with showers, meals, etc. It won't be as social as her living with us, but it'll be safer for everyone.
Where I'm stuck, is figuring out how to do the move. I might have the opportunity to spend time with her their causally (unpacking plates, making food, watching TV etc) before moving her in fully. Do you think this would be a good idea? Then, when it's the actual moving day, I'd just have her day center bring her back to her new place? Or would you essentially have your loved one dropped off after the center one day, and avoid visiting them so they can settle in? It's not a full nursing home, so it's not like someone can pull her away and distract her with dinner and activities in the common area.
2 months ago, mom's decline was so bad that she was given only a few months to live.
However, since starting her day program, she's now doing surprisingly well. She's walking, talking more clearly, and happy/content most of the time. It's like she's moved back in the dementia timeline! Well, imagine my surprise when I found out that mom now has a male "friend" at her center, and they adore each other! They dance together, eat their meals together, and he even accompanies her on the bus ride home. Though she forgets him near instantly when she leaves, she seems smitten every time I've seen them together, and his POA says he's feeling the same.
How do I foster their companionship? Do you have ideas for "dates?" So far I'm thinking some supervised duck pond trips, and maybe having him over for tea and a snack. Maybe I could even find some local restaurants that are quiet, and take them both out? Is like to stay in his comfort zone as much as possible, since caring for 2 dementia patients is new to me. Mom won't elope if she's with me, but I'm not sure about her sweetie.
For more context-- They're both single and young (63/68ish). He lives at home alone with a friendly neighbor who helps caretake and handle his affairs, she lives with me and my family. They both have dementia and seem to only have good intentions. Neither drive, but still enjoy getting out.
What foods are good to leave out on the counter for LO to snack on? She is currently trying to eat 5 bananas in a day, but can't open a pudding cup.