Most research on aging and sex focuses on biology. But research suggests psychology matters, too. People who feel older than their actual age report lower sexual satisfaction, even after accounting for health. How old you feel may matter as much as how old you are.

Most research on aging and sex focuses on biology. But research suggests psychology matters, too. People who feel older than their actual age report lower sexual satisfaction, even after accounting for health. How old you feel may matter as much as how old you are.

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u/psychologyofsex — 12 hours ago

Is there really a male infertility crisis? Systematic review and meta-analysis of dozens of studies from 1970-2018 finds no clinically significant decline in sperm concentration among US men over time.

From the article:

"The findings suggest that in contrast to prior meta-analyses, semen quality in most US men may be more stable than previously thought and may provide further reassurance against an impending epidemic of male factor infertility in fertile men in future generations."

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u/psychologyofsex — 1 day ago

Just like people in monogamous relationships, people in polyamorous relationships experience jealousy too. Research suggests the difference is often how they respond to it, viewing jealousy as a signal of unmet needs to explore and communicate about, rather than a relationship-ending threat.

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u/psychologyofsex — 2 days ago

Research supports the "Goldilocks rule" of online dating: profiles that contain a moderate amount of self-disclosure are rated more favorably than those that contain low or high amounts of personal information.

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u/psychologyofsex — 3 days ago

Research finds that people who are happier with their relationship tend to see their partner's attachment style as similar to their own. Those who are less happy were more accurate, but overestimated their partner's attachment insecurity.

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u/psychologyofsex — 4 days ago

Many women worry that their vulva doesn't look "normal," but research tells a different story. Studies find tremendous natural variation in labial appearance. Ironically, people often rate surgically altered labia as looking more "normal" than natural ones.

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u/psychologyofsex — 5 days ago

Research finds that gay men report much higher levels of solitary sexual desire and engage in more frequent masturbation than heterosexual men. By contrast, lesbian women report lower solitary sexual desire and less masturbation than heterosexual women.

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u/psychologyofsex — 6 days ago

A review of 80 studies identified 76 different subcultures of men who have sex with men, including bears, leathermen, twinks, and jocks. Research shows these groups shape identity, belonging, sexuality, and well-being, but many remain understudied despite their importance to LGBTQ+ community life.

This review also found that some subcultures (like bears) have received substantial research attention, while many others have been studied very little. The authors argue that future research needs to better capture the diversity of LGBTQ+ communities instead of treating men who have sex with men as a single, homogeneous group.

tandfonline.com
u/psychologyofsex — 8 days ago

Research finds that since the 1940s, individuals with right-wing political orientations have maintained fertility at or above replacement level, whereas fertility among left-wing individuals declined to well below replacement. In addition, education was consistently linked to having fewer children.

Religiosity positively predicted having more children, but the effect was relatively weak.

There were also different patterns across racial groups. For example, the link between political orientation and fertility rates held only for white Americans, but not for black Americans.

nature.com
u/psychologyofsex — 10 days ago
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Study of more than 500K couples finds that when women earn more than their male partners, they are 36% more likely to separate compared to when men are the primary breadwinners. This finding did not vary based on a country's level of traditional gender attitudes.

However, the association between women’s higher earnings and relationship dissolution was noticeably stronger among couples raising children. Female-breadwinner couples with children were 49% more likely to separate than male-breadwinner couples, whereas childless female-breadwinner couples were 23% more likely to separate than their male-breadwinning counterparts.

This finding suggests that balancing work and family responsibilities may place greater strain on relationships when women have higher earnings, perhaps because household responsibilities remain unevenly shared. 

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u/Little_Beyond_9163 — 7 days ago

AI chatbots are changing how people seek information about intimate partner violence. Research suggests they may help connect users to evidence-based resources and safety planning. Where they still struggle is recognizing the subtle, complicated ways people actually describe abusive relationships.

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u/psychologyofsex — 11 days ago

Is Gen Z actually having less sex than previous generations? Or are they just expressing intimacy and desire in different ways? The answer isn't entirely clear from the research, due to usage of narrow definitions of what "counts" as sex.

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u/psychologyofsex — 13 days ago

More than half of American adult women own vibrators. Research finds that vibrator use is associated with increased sexual responsiveness, reduced sexual pain, less vaginal atrophy, and lower rates of depressive symptoms.

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u/psychologyofsex — 14 days ago

How do young adults look back on their first sexual experience? Most (57%) felt that their sexual debut happened at the right age, whereas 37% wished it had happened later and 6% wished it had happened earlier.

Men and women differed in how they felt about their sexual debut, with women perceiving the timing as less acceptable than men. However, it is important to note that men and women did not differ in their average age of sexual debut. So despite beginning to have sex at around the same age, men and women reported very different feelings about it. 

Those who were more religiously involved perceived their sexual debut as less acceptable, yet they waited longer to begin having sex. Even when accounting for differences in age of sexual debut, religious involvement was linked to feeling less positively about it.

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u/psychologyofsex — 15 days ago

Young adults today seem more hesitant to pursue relationships, in part because rejection feels more public in the age of social media. Experts argue that while dating always involves risk, avoiding vulnerability may ultimately make loneliness worse.

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u/psychologyofsex — 15 days ago

Romantic partnerships often act as a buffer against loneliness, but research suggests that this protective association does not extend to asexual individuals. Asexual adults report similar rates of loneliness regardless of relationship status.

Asexual participants had similar rates of loneliness regardless of whether they were single, in an unsatisfying relationship, or in a satisfying one. The typical mental health advantages linked to romantic pairings seemingly did not translate to asexual respondents.

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u/psychologyofsex — 17 days ago
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Young women are moving away from exclusive heterosexuality faster than young men. Over the last 15 years, the number of Gen Z women reporting LGBTQ+ identities has increased substantially, while the number for men has barely changed.

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u/BoyNextDoor83 — 17 days ago

Study finds that more than half of adults report concerns about their libido, with the most common concerns being that libido is too low (47%) or doesn't match their partner's (42%). Participants common attributed low libido to mental health issues, body dissatisfaction, and medication side effects.

Women were significantly more likely than men to report worrying about their sex drive.

Relationship status played a role in these concerns as well. Participants who were in relationships, particularly those in relationships lasting between one and fifteen years, were more likely to report low libido and express worry about it.

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u/psychologyofsex — 18 days ago
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Large population-based study of Czech adults finds that 9% report at least one nonconsensual paraphilic interest. However, most had not engaged in sexual offending and did not experience distress or impairment. Most paraphilic interests were unrelated to sexual satisfaction.

Of those with nonconsensual paraphilic interests, 30% reported being distressed by their sexual fantasies or desires, with pedophilic interests being linked to the highest rates of distress.

Among those who were distressed, help-seeking behaviors were rare, with only 7% reporting that they sought help in the past 5 years.

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u/Sam4639 — 19 days ago

Study finds 3 types of romantic partners based on communication patterns: Transparent Partners (38%) rely on honesty for managing intimacy, Strategic Soothers (48%) lie to maintain relationship harmony, and Antagonistic Strategists (14%) deceive partners for control and to seek attention.

Not surprisingly, Transparent Partners exhibit the most relationship satisfaction, secure attachment, and lowest levels of Dark Triad traits.

Strategic Soothers report moderate levels of satisfaction and more insecure attachment, but low Dark Triad Traits.

Antagonistic Strategists report the lowest satisfaction and the highest levels of insecure attachment and Dark Triad traits.

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u/psychologyofsex — 20 days ago