friend "accidentally" said n word?
I'm already having a difficult day because my family has this weird cult like mind set of ganging up on people. I did no contact for 4 years, I've only been talking to them for 9 months and I'm already about to go back to no contact .
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I was venting to my friend about it he called one of the people I was talking about a "n!gga".
my friend is latino 🙄
he was actually helping me mentally, allowing me to vent, until he said that . he's never said it before today (towards me) but this is a relatively new friendship. he keeps calling and apologizing but i dont think I can be friends with someone (non black) who's not careful with that word. its making me think he uses it when im not there.
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regardless, what would u guys do in this situation? have you guys dealt with anything similar?