u/purplepanda11823

Need help ?

Hello everyone

Currently im scheduled to have my second baby In 4 weeks and unfortunately my partner won't be there as he is working abroad and has to stay longer . I have a 1 year old at home but I have no family to help ( due to altercations) and no friends to help at the moment to care of my 1 year old when ill be in the hospital . I wanted to ask yous if anyone knows any services or support that handles with situations like this.

Thank you

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u/purplepanda11823 — 8 days ago
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Financial decision which will lead me to be alone with 2 babies with no help while partner is working abroad should we do it

Hello everyone I'm just going to give a small summary about us , I'm (26 f ) living with my ( 30 m) partner and we have a 9 month and another baby on the way ( 3 months pregnant) . We are deciding to move to Poland next year to live there permanently and have saved up 35 grand so far

My partner recently got a job opportunity to work in Australia for 6 to 9 months starting from August of this year . The job will offer him around 60 grand after tax but he will be travelling around Australia so it will be very hard to visit him . My partner will probably also miss the birth of our second child and I'll most likely not see him while he is abroad.

If he goes I won't have much help with the babies as his family lives too far and I only have my mother who said she can only help a bit as she's ill . 60 grand would help us alot and we would be able to buy a two bedroom apartment in poland .

My partner doesn't know what to do as the opportunity is great but the timing isn't. My partner suggested to move to Poland in March once it gets warmer for the babies and he said that with his degree and qualifications he can find a job for 3 grand to 4 grand ( in euro ) and take out a mortgage after a year or two of him working .

So my question is to yous should he go to Australia save that amount of money or should he not take it and we move to a country and start from scratch.

Feel free to ask any questions, thanks

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u/purplepanda11823 — 5 months ago