How do i stop asking questions/caring about it.
So for a bit of context my boyfriend and I are both 21. We've been together for about 6 months and I cant seem to get my RJ under control and constantly feel like I need my questions answered. For context not counting him i've slept with 4 people, none of them being hookups/one night stands and all of which i dated for a good amount of time. Meanwhile he is kind of the opposite. Ik he had 3 one night stands the same month after high school, but after that no more. However college was a different story. He went through 5-6 girlfriends in about a year sleeping with all of them. He ended up getting into a long term relationship that was about 9 months this last year before they split up. Within a month after they broke up he gave and received head and had sex with a separate girl. then met me a month after and says he's changed. While talking about it all i learned he has slept with 16-18 people total. i wasn't given an actual number i just guessed based what he's told me and he said i was basically right. so who knows. Also learned that he's never been tested, but had only had unprotected sex once with the long term partner who said she was clean. What should I do. Is this a lost cause or do i continue to try to make it work. Despite all the sexual aspects there are a few minor details we butt heads about like his weed addiction, but he's calmed down since we talked about it. just not sure how i'm suppose to behave cuz i feel like i always have questions, but he says im not entitled to know cuz it's the past.