Should we add another libido label to the mix?
Normally it’s just HL and LL. Even those can get misused, though. For instance, I’m HL but I don’t want it every day, maybe just 2-3 times per week would be perfect (at least with my current partner). Compare that with other HLs who want it 2-3 times per day.
My wife is LL, she feels that we are having tons of sex if it’s twice per month. Compare that with other LLs who haven’t wanted to have sex in months, or even years.
Obviously, there is going to be some variance in frequency desired in those camps. That’s a given.
However, should we start referring to that last group as NL—no libido? If you haven’t had it in months, years, decades, is it safe to say that part of you is dead?
Might clear up some things instead of lumping all LLs together. Just a thought!