Open to any thoughts you have!

Open to any thoughts you have!

I’m left-handed and AuDHD (if that matters) so I feel like most of my personal issues with my handwriting can be attributed to rushing lol. Sometimes the letters just get bunched up and smaller, kind of scratchy. The same letters look a little different at times depending on the word. I’d like to just make it look a little prettier and more consistent.

u/quynhispunk — 1 day ago

I want more!!!

I finally got to a place where I’m happy with how I’ve decorated my office! I still have so much empty space that I can fill but my wallet needs a break lol.

u/quynhispunk — 2 days ago
▲ 185 r/RHOBH

Spotted in the wild 🐰

Tagged NSFW because it’s Playboy lol

Spotted Rinna’s 2009 Playboy while out at a record store. I don’t think I’ve seen any actual images from anyone’s Playboy shoots actually, I’ve never bothered to look them up.

I’m new to Real Housewives, I actually just started S13 of BH so no more Rinna. :( she was probably my fav

u/quynhispunk — 3 months ago

Anyone else in Phoenix? 💖

I don’t think I’ve been this hyped for a concert since Gaga 🥰

u/quynhispunk — 3 months ago
▲ 35 r/autism

I can’t cook and I hate it

I’m AuDHD, 28F, and live with my fiancé 29M. I am newly diagnosed, January of this year.

It really fucking frustrates me that I’m not confident enough to cook. When I lived with my parents, they never made any efforts to teach me because it would have taken more energy than just doing it themselves (they were not subtle about making this known). I’m also an only child and I think they just felt inclined to do everything. I voiced to them multiple times growing up that I wanted to learn but they never initiated anything, and I was always too scared to. I thought moving out would give me the kick in the ass I needed, but I guess not…

I’ve lived with my partner for about two years now and he really enjoys cooking. I thought this would be a good thing because maybe he could help me be more confident with cooking. But any time I try, he leaves me to do things when it’s very clear I don’t know what I’m doing and end up asking him a million questions anyway, sometimes to the point he just does it himself and I end up apologizing a million times. He has never said, but I feel like a burden asking him for help. He’s the type of cook who doesn’t like anyone in the kitchen either so I feel like I’m bugging him even when I just stand near him and watch.

I feel like I’m too old to be scared of cooking but I don’t even know where to start beyond holding a knife comfortably and cutting things without injuring myself. It all just feels so intimidating and it genuinely makes me sad that I can’t do this for myself. Idk if anything has felt the same. I think this started off as a vent but if anyone has advise for how to ease myself into cooking I’d appreciate it. If it’s not microwaveable, I can pretty much only make fried eggs and rice (in the rice cooker lol).

Edit: I’m also diagnosed with GAD and depression.

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u/quynhispunk — 3 months ago