u/randomtrans

It really depends for me, but it happens so often on grindr that a guy has never had sex with a trans guy before. Do you guys ask before hooking up if they've slept with a trans guy? Does it make a difference to you? I often don't like to have to teach a guy when I just want to have a quick hookup, if we're going to date and get to know each other then I don't mind. But when a guy messages on grindr and is like "you'll have to teach me to please you" it kind of turns me off idk. I don't mind being a guy's first sometimes, but other times it's a turn off. How do you all feel about it?