u/rangareece

My GF and I have been dating for a while, and our relationship has started to become more and more sexual. The issue is, there are some sexual activities she doesn’t like doing, and the way she has described it is, “I want to do these activities with you, but I just feel like I can’t. It’s not that I don’t love you, I just feel like I can’t.”

I’m asking for any recommendations on how to talk to her and help her through this trauma. I really want to help her through it, as it haunts her almost every time she gets a nightmare, roughly weekly. Is there any way I can help her?