I seriously regret joining this server
I just want to warn people about joining random servers without knowing what you are going into, there is this server I joined where people would insult anyone who joined, including talking shit about their parents (which I one of my friend whos mother and father gone, they still make comments about them), the whole environment for this server is toxic and uncomfortable, what made it even worse was that some of the people there are involved about some criminal activity if Im right, and there were voice messages containing gun shots, I really dont know about the context behind those voice messages but hearing things like that was enough for me to realize that this was not somewhere I or anyone wanted to be in.
Honestly, if a server gives you bad feeling from the beginning immeaditly, please leave, you dont owe anyone your time or your attention, especially when a community acting like this.
Never ever join a random servers just because you are curios, its really not worth it finding out whats inside.