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Our response to "Are butlers worth it?" [Butler service review]

TL,DR: Yes!^(*)

Read on for the full (long winded) asterisk nuance:

One of the reasons we chose a Sandals resort is because we liked the all-inclusive approach. We could have stayed in equivalent properties for less and paid "a la carte" for food and drink. But for us, the value is that we don't have to worry about anything at the resort. No waiting for a check after dinner, no calculating tips or carrying cash, no tracking how much we spent on extras to avoid any unpleasant surprises. We were willing to pay the Sandals price in exchange for what we perceive to be a more pleasant experience.

REVIEW (Grenada June 2026)

Butler service extended this worry-free concept to the next level! Our butler team (Alex, Antonio, and Shane) was amazing! They anticipated our needs even going so far as to change our dinner reservation time so that we could make it to the beach party. This wasn't something we thought about or asked for, we just casually mentioned that we hoped to go to the party and they took the initiative to make the necessary arrangements. They were so good at planning out our activities that we left all the decision making in their hands. They set our schedule for the week and they did it better than we could have on our own, tailored to our own needs and wants. After one moderately late evening dinner we commented to our butler that we were exhausted and not used to eating so late. The team changed all of our remaining reservations to earlier times (which we greatly appreciated!).

No request was too big or small. Pizza and wine by the pool, special snacks in the room, scheduling excursions, and so much more including frequent pleasant surprises in the room.

We enjoyed having a butler walk us to dinner. That gave us a few minutes to casually chat with them and get to know them a little. We were seated immediately and they brought us our first drink, no waiting for a server to come by.

We had one point of contact for all our needs, wants, and desires at the resort. Housekeeping forgot to refill the shampoo or leave washcloths, just mention it to the butler and it's taken care of. Special dietary requirements? The butlers worked with the restaurants to make sure our needs were met. Want an excursion? The butlers can book it.

It was really nice to have one point of contact (well, three over the course of a week) that was easy to contact and who knew a little bit about us personally.

TIPPING

Butlers are one of a very few exceptions to the no tipping rule and are allowed to accept tips. We did tip our butlers at the end of our stay for their exceptional service but we had anticipated that cost up front. We calculated the amount we thought was appropriate in advance of the trip, allowed extra for exceptional service (which was earned!), and considered that just a part of the cost of the resort.

We made sure we knew when the last shift would be for each butler and tipped them then. We tipped between $30 and $35 USD per shift worked, with the $35 going to the butler who showed the most initiative. In retrospect I personally feel we should have tipped higher. Next time we will target around $40 USD per shift. Some tip significantly more than that, some less. This is just the number that feels right to me.

SUMMARY

Butlers provide single point of contact for housekeeping, restaurants, excursions, and much more.

If you like the all-inclusive nature of Sandals, butlers take that a step further.

ASTERISK

The asterisk, of course, is for cost. This is a calculation everyone has to make for themselves. Is Sandals worth the cost? Are butlers worth the added cost? Not everyone will come to the same conclusion. One really nice thing about Sandals is you are treated the same as everyone else on the resort regardless of your room level. You get access to all the same amenities. But if you can tolerate the cost, butler service is a really nice indulgence.

EDITED for formatting.

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u/raw65 — 7 days ago

Sandals is adding rooms with two queen beds

This has been discussed on the various Sandels Facebook groups. All the reasons people give in favor of this are the exact reasons I hate it (except for couples who prefer separate beds). I love the couples focus of Sandals. I don't want the wedding parties, girls trips, etc.

What are your thoughts?

u/raw65 — 18 days ago

Please join us this Thursday (June 11)!

We are here in Grenada now having a great time! We have signed up for the “Reading Road Trip” but need three more people to join us. Please join us! I’ve heard so many good things about this trip. If we approach you here in Grenada please consider it. It sounds like a unique opportunity for the right people. If you have any questions or concerns my wife can absolutely coach you - she has been educator for decades.

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u/raw65 — 29 days ago

Has anyone done the Sandals Foundation "Reading Road Trip"?

This sounds like something my wife and I would love to do on our upcoming trip to Grenada. I would love to hear about your experience if you have done this in the past.

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u/raw65 — 2 months ago