How to handle this?
I love playing chess and found a local club and started going there everyday. They have membership and monthly dues.
They have a recent college grad handling the day to day affairs. Things like connecting 2 people there to play a game, setting up clocks etc. This guy gets his circle of young friends to play with me. I noticed they throw games sometimes. Some of the members play for small bets (20 pesos). After a few days of this, the guy kept pushing me to buy him some food. It's almost like a service he is offering where he gets his friends to play with me and then i should take care of him with food. But the whole thing is implied, without direct communication about it.
Now I initially thought the guy wanted to be friends, then got confused about his constants push for food. I told him nicely to stop doing that, and not to keep pestering for food.
The owner is an older gentleman who is rarely there. There is another manager but I worry that if I go to the manager the guy will get scolded or get booted and will cause more problems for me in the club.
I am pretty new to the country and trying to understand the local culture regarding this. I think these kids are from low income families and think hustling tourists for money/food is ok, without being direct about it.
I used to buy food initially and then stopped as the guy started demanding more, every time I saw him. Then he used his friends to stop playing with me and so on. I can find other players who may stop by but didn't realize there is so much drama in a chess club.