شريت عدة قهوة كاملة عشان أوفر فلوسي بدل الكافيهات، لكن كل كوب أسويه يطلع بطعم غريب، كأنه محروق، وما فيه أي إيحاءات أو نكهات للقهوة.
الطحنة متأكد إنها مناسبة، ووقت التقطير مضبوط، وحتى الغلاية تسمح لي أحدد درجة حرارة الموية. المشكلة إن أول ما أصب الموية على البن تطلع ريحة حرق، وبعدها يطلع الطعم سيئ.
إذا أحد قد مر بنفس المشكلة أو يعرف وش السبب، تكفى علمني. فلوسي قاعدة تخلص على الكافيهات وأنا شاري العدة عشان أوفر.
My friend and I have the kind of friendship where we constantly roast each other. We regularly bring up each other’s embarrassing moments, and it’s never really been a problem.
A while ago we went to a coffee shop. It was completely packed, but we found one empty table outside, which was perfect because we wanted to smoke. I told him to hold the table while I ordered our drinks.
While I was ordering, a girl came over with one of the employees because she wanted our table. I pointed at my friend to show we’d already claimed it.
Instead of telling her we’d been there first, he immediately said, “Go ahead, you can have it.” The part I found funny was that he was obviously trying to be a gentleman, but she completely ignored the gesture, sat at another empty table instead, and someone else immediately took the original table. We ended up losing the table for nothing and had to sit inside.
After that, I started making occasional jokes about it and calling him a simp. I never told people the full story; I’d just make little references or inside jokes whenever we were with friends.
The reason I kept doing it was because, at first, he wasn’t seriously telling me to stop. He’d say things like, “Shut up, asshole,” or “Don’t bring it up,” while laughing, so I honestly thought it was just our normal banter. Since we’d always joked about each other’s embarrassing moments, I didn’t think this was any different.
Eventually, though, he sat me down and seriously told me it genuinely bothered him and wanted me to stop. Once he made it clear he wasn’t joking, I stopped bringing it up.
What still bothers me is that it feels like he gets to decide which embarrassing stories are okay to joke about. He’s always joked about my embarrassing moments, and I’ve never cared because I saw it as part of our friendship. This was the first time one of those stories became off-limits.
So, AITA?
So this happened a while ago.
My friend and I went to a coffee shop. It was completely packed, but luckily we found an empty table outside, which was perfect because we wanted to smoke.
I told my friend to go claim the table while I ordered our drinks. He put his stuff on the table to save it. A few seconds later, a girl came over with one of the employees because she wanted that exact table. I pointed at my friend to show that we’d already claimed it.
Instead of saying we were there first, my friend immediately told her, “Go ahead, you can have it,” and gave up the table. The funny part is there was another empty table available, but it wasn’t as good of a spot.
The girl didn’t even take the table. She ignored him and sat at the other one instead. While my friend was walking away, someone else came and took the original table. We ended up drinking our coffee inside without being able to smoke because of that whole situation.
Afterward, I started joking that he was a simp and was trying too hard to look like a gentleman. He asked me not to tell anyone about what happened.
I never actually told the full story, but whenever we were hanging out with friends I’d make little hints or inside jokes about it because I thought the situation was hilarious.
Eventually he got genuinely upset and told me, “I’ve already asked you to stop bringing this up. It’s not cool.”
From my perspective, it was just a funny story. If I had been in his position, I wouldn’t care if my friends joked about it because I’d think it was embarrassing but still funny.
So, AITA for continuing to joke about something after my friend specifically asked me to stop bringing it up?