Posted on IG stories but didn’t reply to my texts
For context, he’s (28M) in the Europe continent and I’m (22F) in the Asia continent so we are very far away, and so I give trust and grace for our relationship. He’s also Brazilian, and we’re still in the pre-bfgf but exclusive stage. We have known each other for 2.5months and the last time we saw each other was 1.5months ago.
In his last text at 11am his time yesterday, he mentioned that he was going to a party for the night. I responded 8+pm (our response time usually ranges from almost instant to 12h, max 36 hours one time). I know that he stays until the end of parties so 5/6am the next morning, but it’s now 1pm, and I saw that he posted on IG stories around 7am but has not replied my texts.
Sometimes I do see that he has been active on IG before he actually texts me back, which I am perfectly okay with because I am also guilty of doomscrolling. I am also okay with him not updating me throughout the night because I also usually text him post-activity. Every time he replies after a long while or post-activity he always replies with very sweet and in-depth messages. But posting without replying is the first time, and having the capacity to post on IG stories while not having texted me back feels a bit concerning to me.
Am I overthinking it or should I bring it up, and how? This is my first LDR and real relationship so would appreciate any advice 😭